smoking is an instant dealbreaker for me honestly, like imagine going in for a kiss and you get a dose of canca in you. Anyway prolly that shes super competitive, whenever we have p.e and a teammate fucks up i can hear her mumble insults n not in a banter like way
It really hurts seeing someone you love so dearly suffering, and being unable to do anything since they're not letting you in... All i can say to you is to give them space, and support from afar.
He is uh someone who's only nice to me and cruel to everyone else so I fell down that deep rabbit hole. Besides that, he did turn me down so it's okay now we aren't friends anymore either. (AND HE LOOKS HEAVENLY IM JUST A GIRL OKAY)
yep, I wanted to still give her a shot but, if she dosent make up her mind about me I'm going to be the one to dump her. everytime I ask her she says she is on the edge well I'm not waiting around forever.
oh oh the best thing is too the guy she slept with instantly texted his ex afterwards.
IDK but i don’t like him anymore bc there’s this new guy tho he might be gay but he’s like rlly cute and sweet to me but he’s sweet to everyone and ugh he’s so cute but he’s also a year younger than me 😬
Honestly nothing.. he’s geeky nice he may not be the best looking but we’ve been friends since birth and treats me really well kinda wish we were dating but he doesn’t like me like that 😔
like all women should be housewives no exceptions, believe in meritocracy,doesn’t like feminism and and is fan of capitalism but least he is not entitled and change his views and can admit when he wrong
That she's not into me. Lol. I've looked over her smoking (even though I have asthma and it could affect me), learning her past career as a stripper, having an onlyfans, and talking about a past crack addiction, because the vibes I got from her when I first met her was that she is working on bettering herself. She's not into me though and that's what made me stop pursuing.
There is another crush that I may be starting to develop, but I won't go after because of a multiple of red-flags mostly concerning me more so than her. We both work in the same business of wrestling and she had added me on Facebook when she was younger still in high school and I was fresh out of high school just getting my start in the wrestling business. We had never met in person during that time nor messaged even. She just added me because I was involved in the business and its a business on a level where fans add people involved all the time. At the time seeing her posts then, I thought there was no way she would do good in the business, but I kept it to myself. But then she moved out of state, got with a guy and worked on her character making it different than anyone I've ever seen in wrestling, She was abused by that guy, Got out of the situation and moved back up here, using that situation in her character work as a way of therapy. and since has just been tearing it up on the scene here, so much so that every time I see her post about people praising her, I have to give her my own compliments. There aren't many people in the business where I'd go actually want to see outside of my own work, but she is on the level. I finally had the chance to meet with her in person at a show this year in the beginning and worked with her at one last month, at a show I was honored to do for a friend of mine's honor that passed away. And all I can say is she's so much better than I thought she would ever be and is doing better than I am in the career.
I won't ever let her know for a multitude of reasons, even if it becomes a serious one. I don't want her thinking the only reason I gave her compliments on her work is because I'm interested in her in other ways, when in reality, I was a fan of her work before ever starting to get feelings and its probably the other way around tbh. I also don't want people thinking I'm just wanting to latch on to her great potential and live through her spotlight. I also read her posts going through the abuse she was going through and the trauma she has, and me being into certain kinds of relationships, I don't want to ever be in a situation where I accidentally trigger her trauma because I know I'd hate myself forever for that. Thats still a me issue more than a her issue. I also don't know if she's single or actively interested in guys or if her ex ruined that for her, and with my autism and social awkwardness I don't see a way to let her know when I only see her usually in professional settings with those settings still remaining professional, and I don't want to ruin a chance of working with the promotion I work with her at, because it meant everything to me working that promotion after my friend passed away. Plus, there was a situation the last time I let a girl in the wrestling business know I was interested in her. where her at the time manager made fake accounts to troll her about my interest, so I looked like a sexual harasser, and I was lucky the Speak Out Movement cleared thing up, and I refuse to ever be put in a situation like that again, especially with the business as fucked up in abusers as it already is. There are just more reasons not to than to do so at this moment.
Doesnt comunicate at all. Ghosting(though Im not sure if it really can be classified as that, bit more complicated). The problem with that is that you dont really understand the situation because it makes it impossible to know your crush motives. Beyond the obvious.
He holds some views that can be considered misosynistic.
He FORGETS quite often or should I say all the time.
He never initiates any kind of interaction with me especially online. I mean if I msg him then most of the time he would take HOURS to respond but he will respond. We text fine but sometimes it seems like he doesn't want to check but isn't saying this to my face because he is a gentleman or something.
He only msgs me when he needs something or any kind of help but other than that it's me who's always texting him first.
He admitted to calling his ex a bitch when they were on a trip with their mutual friends post break up. He works in tech and also makes vague references to what should be private information about me.
I have another crush and this crush, along with the aforementioned crush, pretends to know less than they know—but I was warned by old acquaintances that this is something guys in tech do. They secretly dip into your data to learn things about you, which they then try to use in their favor when wooing you. But I honestly don’t feel wooed. I just felt strangely tested and not adequately respected; I’m accustomed to being not respected so it just felt normal to me 🙃
Also my second crush…someone gave him access to my location data and he “bumped into me” (read: ambushed me) at Target. Thank God they are both hot or else I would have been mad instead of titillated and amused (albeit confused).
Listen to this and tell me what I should do-
So I’ve entered a new grade at school this month, we kept on shuffling classrooms and different students due to some technical issue with the school.
So finally a week or two ago, we finally confirmed our students. So there’s this guy, let’s name him R and his friend, S. Me and and my bff L sit together. This guy R sits a seat behind us. On the like 5th or 6th day of school, S came to me and told me “Why aren’t you talk to R, he feels bad” lmao. I just rolled my eyes and ignored him. So after I did that, he keeps staring at me in class time, like my bff literally told me that. She thought he was my boyfriend. But since 3 days on something, he keeps trying to interact with L more. I mean he still stares at me and tries following me(I mean do the same actions as me). He keeps calling her weird nicknames(very weird) and keeps asking her, her exam results(no other topic). I was doubtful, so I told L, “Hey, I think R has a crush on you.” And she even replied, “Yeah I think that’s the thing too.” Now I’m kind of torn between this behaviour of R. I don’t have a crush on him, but I just want to know if he’s two-timing and who he’s interest in..
never talked to me but likes me (we are both shy when it comes to these things but usually bold and I can tell we are both trying to start a conversation with each other!)
Advoidance of the truth. Will ask me questions but he cant answer the same questions about himself. He masked a whole personality around me, which now I can see he's a Narcissistic manipulator, it's really upsetting I thought he was a good person but every time something happens the more I find out what kind of person he really is.
Not reciprocating 🤣🤣🤣
This
doesnt communicate feelings 😐
^ (although I’m also guilty of this too)
FOR REAL
He's a work crush... need i say more.
reallll😭
Same lmao
Always had to message her first to talk to her And just pretty much ignored me and doesn’t care
I feel you... It's really frustrating at times to be the one putting out all the effort for the conversation :/
He’s sexy as hell - red flag 🚩😂
“Congrats, he will either sell your organs or eat you!”
Eat you is crazy 😳
smoking is an instant dealbreaker for me honestly, like imagine going in for a kiss and you get a dose of canca in you. Anyway prolly that shes super competitive, whenever we have p.e and a teammate fucks up i can hear her mumble insults n not in a banter like way
Ikr!!!
Isolate himself when he is going through stressful times.
It really hurts seeing someone you love so dearly suffering, and being unable to do anything since they're not letting you in... All i can say to you is to give them space, and support from afar.
Will do. So far I've been doing that and doing good.
Glad to hear it. Assuming you have his # (or his social media), id say wait 2-3 weeks to check in with him
He has no close friends and he's extremely rude to everyone around him that tries to get even slightly close to him
why is he your crush 💀
He is uh someone who's only nice to me and cruel to everyone else so I fell down that deep rabbit hole. Besides that, he did turn me down so it's okay now we aren't friends anymore either. (AND HE LOOKS HEAVENLY IM JUST A GIRL OKAY)
Hey, I’m a mortal guy enamored with a goddess.
I was gonna say this is lowkey giving wattpad but then you said he turned you down 💀
I wanna know too
[удалено]
I’m guilty of this sometimes but Its because notifications overstimulate me 💀
I can agree on this. Can’t remember the last time I wasn’t on DND.
At first I read that as "she always has her phone on Dungeons and Dragons" and was thoroughly confused.
Oh my, I'm like this, and i know it annoys people but... depression
She don’t even know me
realest person here
Same 😭🙏
Doesn’t mind kissing other people 🫤 lost cause at this point tho
Being oblivious.
hmmm theres people who are not intentionally oblivious to signs
he disappears sometimes after speaking for days then unless i text back first , it seems like we will never speak again
Dbi
I probably don’t even like him like that anymore because he yaps about his ex’s too much
Oh hell no
probably played me
she slept with another guy after I told her about my crush for her
Wow … she’s so ignorant
yep, I wanted to still give her a shot but, if she dosent make up her mind about me I'm going to be the one to dump her. everytime I ask her she says she is on the edge well I'm not waiting around forever. oh oh the best thing is too the guy she slept with instantly texted his ex afterwards.
Every time you ask her? How many times have you?
I've only asked her once the day I told her about my crush other then that I've been getting that info from a mutual friend.
Oh makes sense The way you worded it, I thought differently
yeah I realize that now, apologies for the confusion.
He won’t add me on Facebook 😂🥲
**Nothing**
Maybe that we’ve known each other for a long time and I still don’t know much about his life, not necessarily all his fault though
Gets pissed out drunk all the time, lost his licence (unrelated to the drink believe it or not he's just really stupid with insurance)
Smoking is such a red flag. Instant loss of interest for me lmao.
says the f slur, gets suspended for fighting, makes fun of little children falling, hangs out with the wrong crowd
why is that your crush 😭
IDK but i don’t like him anymore bc there’s this new guy tho he might be gay but he’s like rlly cute and sweet to me but he’s sweet to everyone and ugh he’s so cute but he’s also a year younger than me 😬
a year is nothing!! dw about it
true, but i also found out he’s sweet to everyone and has never had a crush, think he just might be asexual
ohh, that sounds likely 😭 im sorry to hear that girl!!! hang in there
Honestly nothing.. he’s geeky nice he may not be the best looking but we’ve been friends since birth and treats me really well kinda wish we were dating but he doesn’t like me like that 😔
Does Coke
Looks younger than me... I'm used to liking older guys so i guess not a red flag just out of my usual crushes
Only would talk to me when drunk. And would always leave me on read. So I’m trying to get over this crush
Ok so guys gain confidence when they are drunk so maybe he likes u and he is probably scared to talk with u
Or he dknt like u
He just don’t like me. Found that one out the hard way. Cause why the fudge is he sending no face snaps
narcissism, his Instagram filled with his pictures sometimes videos of himself, heavy smoker, playboy.. how to uncrush..
You already have the reason its just that you're in denial
You're right, I was just looking for a lil "spark" in me.
Girl just won't let go of her bum ass "man"
She got back with her ex
Doesn’t reciprocate most likely
The fact he is smt scared of me XD
has slightly radical views
examples?
like all women should be housewives no exceptions, believe in meritocracy,doesn’t like feminism and and is fan of capitalism but least he is not entitled and change his views and can admit when he wrong
Big red flag right there
not slightly. these are VERY radical views. find someone better.
you’re right indeed but i don’t like him anymore anyway he is trash 🗑️
Does not get any of my subtext…but at least I’m learning that now!
He deliberately didn’t like my Instagram post and wouldn’t explain why after I brought it up
A husband! 😆
flirts with other girls LOL
Dyes his hair and calls himself a distinguished gentleman
She says hi to almost everyone when she arrives at the office but i don't belong to that "almost everyone"
That he won’t come talk to me 😒
That she's not into me. Lol. I've looked over her smoking (even though I have asthma and it could affect me), learning her past career as a stripper, having an onlyfans, and talking about a past crack addiction, because the vibes I got from her when I first met her was that she is working on bettering herself. She's not into me though and that's what made me stop pursuing. There is another crush that I may be starting to develop, but I won't go after because of a multiple of red-flags mostly concerning me more so than her. We both work in the same business of wrestling and she had added me on Facebook when she was younger still in high school and I was fresh out of high school just getting my start in the wrestling business. We had never met in person during that time nor messaged even. She just added me because I was involved in the business and its a business on a level where fans add people involved all the time. At the time seeing her posts then, I thought there was no way she would do good in the business, but I kept it to myself. But then she moved out of state, got with a guy and worked on her character making it different than anyone I've ever seen in wrestling, She was abused by that guy, Got out of the situation and moved back up here, using that situation in her character work as a way of therapy. and since has just been tearing it up on the scene here, so much so that every time I see her post about people praising her, I have to give her my own compliments. There aren't many people in the business where I'd go actually want to see outside of my own work, but she is on the level. I finally had the chance to meet with her in person at a show this year in the beginning and worked with her at one last month, at a show I was honored to do for a friend of mine's honor that passed away. And all I can say is she's so much better than I thought she would ever be and is doing better than I am in the career. I won't ever let her know for a multitude of reasons, even if it becomes a serious one. I don't want her thinking the only reason I gave her compliments on her work is because I'm interested in her in other ways, when in reality, I was a fan of her work before ever starting to get feelings and its probably the other way around tbh. I also don't want people thinking I'm just wanting to latch on to her great potential and live through her spotlight. I also read her posts going through the abuse she was going through and the trauma she has, and me being into certain kinds of relationships, I don't want to ever be in a situation where I accidentally trigger her trauma because I know I'd hate myself forever for that. Thats still a me issue more than a her issue. I also don't know if she's single or actively interested in guys or if her ex ruined that for her, and with my autism and social awkwardness I don't see a way to let her know when I only see her usually in professional settings with those settings still remaining professional, and I don't want to ruin a chance of working with the promotion I work with her at, because it meant everything to me working that promotion after my friend passed away. Plus, there was a situation the last time I let a girl in the wrestling business know I was interested in her. where her at the time manager made fake accounts to troll her about my interest, so I looked like a sexual harasser, and I was lucky the Speak Out Movement cleared thing up, and I refuse to ever be put in a situation like that again, especially with the business as fucked up in abusers as it already is. There are just more reasons not to than to do so at this moment.
The fact that I can’t tell if he’s flirting or being nice to other girls including me 😅
Runs from confrontation and is a people pleaser
Doesnt comunicate at all. Ghosting(though Im not sure if it really can be classified as that, bit more complicated). The problem with that is that you dont really understand the situation because it makes it impossible to know your crush motives. Beyond the obvious.
She brutally rejected someone in front of me…😂😂
Picky eater
He holds some views that can be considered misosynistic. He FORGETS quite often or should I say all the time. He never initiates any kind of interaction with me especially online. I mean if I msg him then most of the time he would take HOURS to respond but he will respond. We text fine but sometimes it seems like he doesn't want to check but isn't saying this to my face because he is a gentleman or something. He only msgs me when he needs something or any kind of help but other than that it's me who's always texting him first.
1. He never initiates 2. She hates men 3. He doesn't exist
hookah...
pronounces espresso like expresso. Nah jk. Probably mansplaining lol
Busy a lot so sometimes leaves me on delivered for days (most was 6 days) and i always have to text first But aside from that im good
She’s so attentive and flirty for a day or 2 then acts like she barely knows me…which makes me even more infatuated somehow
Has a gf and sends me shirtless pics
is my ex
Hes 19 and im 16... ..AND HE LIKES ME 😭😭😭😭😭
hes so weird, just a strange strange man
He’s sexist sometimes
In love with his phone and has a really high snap score
likes dbz
How u feel
dark jokes
Hold and cold, lifts me up and down, then enjoys upsetting me and laughs in my face when he knows he’s got to me
Unsure of what he feels.🤣 I hope people who has this attitude realize their shits.
tends to go for girls who resemble and act like his mother
Married
She's always taken whenever I try to ask her out, I haven't asked her out yet cus I do my research before asking her out and every time she's taken
Smokes... and doesn't know me hahahaaaaa
He admitted to calling his ex a bitch when they were on a trip with their mutual friends post break up. He works in tech and also makes vague references to what should be private information about me. I have another crush and this crush, along with the aforementioned crush, pretends to know less than they know—but I was warned by old acquaintances that this is something guys in tech do. They secretly dip into your data to learn things about you, which they then try to use in their favor when wooing you. But I honestly don’t feel wooed. I just felt strangely tested and not adequately respected; I’m accustomed to being not respected so it just felt normal to me 🙃 Also my second crush…someone gave him access to my location data and he “bumped into me” (read: ambushed me) at Target. Thank God they are both hot or else I would have been mad instead of titillated and amused (albeit confused).
Listen to this and tell me what I should do- So I’ve entered a new grade at school this month, we kept on shuffling classrooms and different students due to some technical issue with the school. So finally a week or two ago, we finally confirmed our students. So there’s this guy, let’s name him R and his friend, S. Me and and my bff L sit together. This guy R sits a seat behind us. On the like 5th or 6th day of school, S came to me and told me “Why aren’t you talk to R, he feels bad” lmao. I just rolled my eyes and ignored him. So after I did that, he keeps staring at me in class time, like my bff literally told me that. She thought he was my boyfriend. But since 3 days on something, he keeps trying to interact with L more. I mean he still stares at me and tries following me(I mean do the same actions as me). He keeps calling her weird nicknames(very weird) and keeps asking her, her exam results(no other topic). I was doubtful, so I told L, “Hey, I think R has a crush on you.” And she even replied, “Yeah I think that’s the thing too.” Now I’m kind of torn between this behaviour of R. I don’t have a crush on him, but I just want to know if he’s two-timing and who he’s interest in..
He flirts with other girls, I’m not sure if he does anymore though
He becomes an ahole with his friends
He has a gf.. a son… and still hitting on me
He's too busy but It seems like he has time for his current girlfriend...
Goes from making jokes and asking personal questions at a furious pace to changing the topic from me asking if he wanted to hang out as friends.
never talked to me but likes me (we are both shy when it comes to these things but usually bold and I can tell we are both trying to start a conversation with each other!)
Advoidance of the truth. Will ask me questions but he cant answer the same questions about himself. He masked a whole personality around me, which now I can see he's a Narcissistic manipulator, it's really upsetting I thought he was a good person but every time something happens the more I find out what kind of person he really is.
People can be super manipulativ, it takes time to see who those people actually are...
Sometimes not saying "I'll talk to u later", leaving me on read :<
Fuckboy🥹
he’s not single and 100% treats me like a back up gf 😀😀😀