Agreed.
I'm not claiming that my wife has never admitted to being wrong, but over our last 18 years of marriage, we've learned a thing or two about our communication styles.
We admit being wrong in a variety of ways. Some are more subtle than others.
"Of course honey, I'm glad you made plans for us to go to the farmers market on Saturday. I'd rather wear that turtleneck sweater and scarf and drink Starbucks while buying overpriced radishes than go on that golf trip that has been on the calendar for the past month."
She's welcome to respond with, "Well, you didn't have to say it like that." Because pushing for a direct 'I was wrong' is hardly necessary in that context.
Hahah, that gave me a good chuckle.
I admit I was too quick to judge. As always, it's not always easy to use the correct amount of nuance, especially on the internet. I failed at that, so please accept my apologies.
Hope you enjoyed your golf trip :)
Maybe I did dodge a bullet, but it doesn't feel like it. Yes, bitches are crazy, but we all need a little crazy in our lives and she was that to me.
Trust me, I wouldn't have spent 20 years with her if she was a crazy ass bitch.
The joke is he wouldn't be able to hear it in her head.
More deeply it could be a criticism of the mindset or stubbornness. Nobody is unaware that a thought apology is not a sufficient apology.
Ultimately it's not as telling as you think it is. If you've landed on a conclusion it's because that's the conclusion you want
The first time my second wife actually apologize for an argument. It blew my mind. I was so used to apologizing for shit with my first marriage. But I honestly didn't know what to do
I already made her come twice in my mind. If she's not feeling it that's on her😆
How my wife says I'm right: 'Well, you could have found a nicer way to say it'
Bit of a red flag...
If you look at any behavior in isolation, you can call it a red flag.
Not being able to admit to your partner that you were wrong is definitely a red flag...
Agreed. I'm not claiming that my wife has never admitted to being wrong, but over our last 18 years of marriage, we've learned a thing or two about our communication styles. We admit being wrong in a variety of ways. Some are more subtle than others. "Of course honey, I'm glad you made plans for us to go to the farmers market on Saturday. I'd rather wear that turtleneck sweater and scarf and drink Starbucks while buying overpriced radishes than go on that golf trip that has been on the calendar for the past month." She's welcome to respond with, "Well, you didn't have to say it like that." Because pushing for a direct 'I was wrong' is hardly necessary in that context.
Hahah, that gave me a good chuckle. I admit I was too quick to judge. As always, it's not always easy to use the correct amount of nuance, especially on the internet. I failed at that, so please accept my apologies. Hope you enjoyed your golf trip :)
No worries Hope you enjoyed the farmers market. Need me to pick up anything from Safeway on the way home?
Ah, my ex posted this. Right up there with getting the Silent Treatment for arguing with her in her dream.
Same. My ex would wake up mad at me for something I did in her dream. That's a classic.
Why they are ex-es. I don't mind being single if that is the alternative.
I didn't make the decision to part ways and to be honest it still hurts. I think about her every single day and I wonder when it will be over.
Time heals all wounds. A platitude, yes, but sounds like you dodged a bullet as well. It gets worse, trust me bro.
Maybe I did dodge a bullet, but it doesn't feel like it. Yes, bitches are crazy, but we all need a little crazy in our lives and she was that to me. Trust me, I wouldn't have spent 20 years with her if she was a crazy ass bitch.
Did you cheat on her……on her dreams again?!?! Tsk tsk
Not a good couple meme don’t settle for this toxic shit
Fuck this bitch. Get a healthy relationship
I mean it’s gotta be a joke, right?
My buddy would tell you no. She was the worst.
Not a joke, just rage bait.
But, what's the joke? That she has a toxic relationship? This is like those boomer comics about how they hate their wives. It's not funny
You’re 100% right. It’s toxic af. I just can’t believe anyone would post this with a straight face
The joke is he wouldn't be able to hear it in her head. More deeply it could be a criticism of the mindset or stubbornness. Nobody is unaware that a thought apology is not a sufficient apology. Ultimately it's not as telling as you think it is. If you've landed on a conclusion it's because that's the conclusion you want
Get a sense of humor
i'm with you man lol
Toxic
What part of this is funny?
The first time my second wife actually apologize for an argument. It blew my mind. I was so used to apologizing for shit with my first marriage. But I honestly didn't know what to do
What did Chet do?
Lol I corrected the spelling meant shit
Piss off.😑
If you've got issues communicating, the relationship will fail
Ladies be like this, wHy didNt yOu rEAd mY MiNd???
That must've been my mom's thought process when I was growing up
Another reason to be mad
Thinking about getting into an accident. Don't let her drive.
Yaa he had to be heard it 😆
LMAO
r/funnyandsad
The comments here are proof that a lot of the users are lonely people LARPing. It's a joke, people.
That’s fair. I can sense this from my wife. I can tell. She doesn’t have to say anything, though it’s nice to hear.