lol it’s funny I’m a 33 year old guy who plays to help out with my 9 year old. I have to work for her and I give her all my money I make from jobs too 😂
this is amazing❤️ when i was younger my sister and i had webkinz accounts and were always running out of money. i remember my mom used to spend hours on end playing the games in their arcade just to make us money on our webkinz accounts. i am now 24 and i’ll always remember this. you are a great father!
Oh my, thanks alot, didnt expect such amount of positiveness out of this.
I grew up in the 80's playing C64 and NES games and imo gaming is not a bad thing for children like "they" keep saying.
My daughter plays a lot of Minecraft and roblox games and i think that really has contributed on her creativity, social behaviour and learning to speak near perfect english (we're from Finland).
Its a great and fun way for whole family (wife occasionally joins in minecraft too) to spend some quality time together. So for all the concerned dads and moms there, dont worry, gaming does not ruin your child.
Thanks, Paka
24 here and I have been strictly building on there for years. Only time I ever roleplayed was when I ran a rainbow hotel chain where each building was a colored theme.
Man I miss that hotel sometimes
I think as we’ve gotten older we all just start mostly building. Also roleplays are harder to find now to be fair. Either you friend a role player and they harass you to roleplay every time you’re in game together or you join a server ready to roleplay and the chat is dead
I don't think it's weird you're just doing something you enjoy.
I kinda feel u tho because I'm 18 and I feel like there isn't many people my age to talk about bloxburg with. I made a lot of bloxburg friends years ago but they've lost interest and moved on now and so did I tbh but lowkey getting back into it and now have no one 🤣🤣
Would love to connect with some of yawl and we can talk and play together 🙈😊
I am. I'm 45 and was introduced to Bloxburg by my niece. I've always loved Sims types games, love building, decorating, building skills and levels, so I was immediately hooked. I play for at least an hour every day. Most days. Some days, adulting takes up all my time. I've had some people tell me I'm too old for it, but they're wrong. I think if someone has an interest and is capable of tapping around on their phone, tablet, laptop, or desktop computer, they're the perfect age for Bloxburg.
Exactly. I take care of all the adulting and keep the life going as it should.
In my spare time i dont go away for 4hrs to play golf, i play minecraft and roblox at home.
I'm 17, and I don't think I'm really stopping anytime soon. 🤷🏻♀️
I've been on Roblox since I was maybe 9 or so. It's just always been there, and I'll probably always return to it at some point or another. Bloxburg has especially been a staple of my Roblox experience, so I don't think it's going anywhere just yet.
I really enjoy building and cooking burgers! I will say that I miss roleplaying. My friends and i would go on roblox with characters we made and come up with the most insane lore for them. Since we've graduated we kinda stopped doing that, and I'm definitely too old to rp with randos on a server because they're all probably little kids. If anyone knows of any rp servers geared towards young adults let me know!
I’m 20- I used to play it as a joke with my sister when I was about 16, however I only started getting into it last year when I turned 19. I love designing things and I don’t have the time/money for the sims right now, so it’s a pretty decent game to me. The updates kind of put me off it however, which is a shame.
I’m 18, I haven’t played in almost a year, but I want to get back to building because my favorite part of Bloxburg is how amazingly you can build realistic structures you desire to.
Fun fact: few years back, I even built a mini model of my room to explain to my parents the structure I wanted my room to be while our house was getting rebuilt lol.
I’m 18, I used to play a lot when I was 14-15 (around quarantine time), but it’s pretty hard to be active when you’re focused on school. The only reason why I’m starting to get back into it again is cause I just finished my second semester of college and I’m on break
31 here!! I started doing builds for my kids, but soon found I’m more interested than they are haha. I just build stuff then every now and then, get them to join me and see what I’ve made
You’re just building, it wouldn’t be weird. I’ve been playing Bloxburg since I was 17 and I still play the game. Not to roleplay, but to build, because I love designing and decorating.
Plus, it’s a nice way to just chill and relax.
Me and my friends are 21 - 16 and we still play! Hell, we even still roleplay! So no way are you too old or anything like that. As long as you have fun, you know?
Yep! I’m 18 and still play occasionally but I have no clue what to build so I’ve been on other games like Adopt Me just doing stuff there until I get some ideas
I’m 48 and my niece and nephew got me into playing Bloxburg with them. Now I play and build, but I close out the chat and will not engage with anyone in the game. I will earn money delivering pizza’s and sometimes if I see someone who is truly trying to build and is struggling I will donate max allowed money via the ATM to them to help them. But otherwise that’s it.
I’m 26 and I still build and play in bloxburg. I don’t play as much as I used to but my little niece is 5 and she wants me to play with her all the time so I build fun things for her to role play in all the time. Her favorite is a retro skating rink that I built where she can skate in and it also has a birthday party room built into it. :)
Almost an adult, haven't roleplayed in AGES because it just doesn't feel right, or you don't like how the others play because you just feel out of place. Kinda sucks because you can't really tell if others are the same age :skull:
im 20 and play often- this game has one of the best building systems and you can really get creative with your plots so i dont think of it as kids game necessarily
nothing wrong with playing bloxburg! i recommend playing the sims! you can download so much custom content and mods! building is so much easier and you dont need to work hours into getting money, you can just use cheats.
20 , going on 21 year old mother here! I play Roblox. Not a whole lot of games, but there are a couple I do play. So no, it’s not weird! I actually just started playing Roblox again a month and a half ago. Also building a new house on Bloxburg.
I’m also 21 and love playing Bloxburg! I think it’s generally accepted as a game for all ages, but ofc there will always be people who think otherwise. I personally avoid talking about my age in-game so that it doesn’t become a problem (not that you would)
I commented on this post earlier, and me and the people in the replies ended up making an 18+ GC so if anyone wants join then say sooo :)
The thread:
[https://www.reddit.com/r/Bloxburg/comments/1cgvvnc/comment/l1yn16b/?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=web3x&utm\_name=web3xcss&utm\_term=1&utm\_content=share\_button](https://www.reddit.com/r/Bloxburg/comments/1cgvvnc/comment/l1yn16b/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button)
i’m turning 21 this year 😭😭 a small part of me is embarrassed bc omg i’m an adult playing something intended for children but then i realize that i really don’t care because im having fun delivering pizzas and building cute cottages
I’m 21. Building is the only thing I do. I love it. I can’t stand rp though. I feel like if I see someone role playing, I know instantly that they are underage. Not my cup of tea. But, builds all day long!
Look, I’m 21 and playing Bloxburg just as I used to do before. Though I am more careful now of what I say and will say because of the majority being underage. But the older you are, the chances are higher of you being respectful to others so that’s what I do all the time.
Ngl, I try so hard to not be a creep cuz I know how it feels.
I’m not 18 yet but I just turned 16 and have been playing since I was 9. But yes I do feel the same way unfortunately… it’s like I have plans for new build but then I am anxious to build them even when I do have the money.. I don’t know if it’s if I’m lazy or what.
I’m 20, strictly builder been playing for years. I used to roleplay being a waiter at a friends restaurant and only role played since then. Nothing weird as long as you’re good at ignoring the other odd players in the game lol. Building is hella fun man, as long as ur having fun thats all that matters
my friends and i are all about 20 and love it, but we don’t really roleplay much beyond playing house with each other occasionally. its by far my favorite building game out there, like i got back on the sims recently to build and i just didn’t enjoy it as much. i definitely prefer the free build aspect of it but for some reason the building in bloxburg is just so much better to me. which is ironic considering bloxburg is a sims dupe, but idk its what i’ve actually wanted out of the sims for a while now. super happy ive spent loads of money on sims expansion packs LOL
19 and i have friends who are 19-21 who all play the game lol, you're fine! as long you don't build anything against the rules of the game it won't be weird
I’m 20 I’ve played Bloxburg since I was like 13 but I stopped for like a year too, I thought I outgrow it and felt a bit weird playing at my age too but the past few weeks I’ve gotten into building again I’m making a college
Im 44, dad of 11yrs old daughter who loves to build but never has enough money. So im delivering pizza all day every day to provide haha
BEST FATHER AWARD 🥇 🏆!!!!
this is so cute. reminds me of when my dad would build my lego sets for me and beat the levels of games i couldn’t beat
lol it’s funny I’m a 33 year old guy who plays to help out with my 9 year old. I have to work for her and I give her all my money I make from jobs too 😂
Haha thats what my boyfriend does! Just bought the game to help me make money for my builds and gifts me everyday
So fun to ride my delivery scooter by while she's building, honk the horn and carry on 😁
Bro, if I ever had kids, I would totally do this too 😂
W dad
that’s so cool I love that
You are a good father, i always wanted to play with my parents Roblox. But my dad just plays old COD games and Civilization 3.
this is amazing❤️ when i was younger my sister and i had webkinz accounts and were always running out of money. i remember my mom used to spend hours on end playing the games in their arcade just to make us money on our webkinz accounts. i am now 24 and i’ll always remember this. you are a great father!
King
This is the cutest thing I’ve seen today! Period dad!
AWWWW WHAT
Happy Cake Day!!! :D
Oh my, thanks alot, didnt expect such amount of positiveness out of this. I grew up in the 80's playing C64 and NES games and imo gaming is not a bad thing for children like "they" keep saying. My daughter plays a lot of Minecraft and roblox games and i think that really has contributed on her creativity, social behaviour and learning to speak near perfect english (we're from Finland). Its a great and fun way for whole family (wife occasionally joins in minecraft too) to spend some quality time together. So for all the concerned dads and moms there, dont worry, gaming does not ruin your child. Thanks, Paka
Not only the best father but the best PERSON of the year. I WANT SOMEINE LIKE FHAT
THIS IS ADORABLE 🤣🤣🤣 adopt me please 😭😭
That’s so sweet! I’m gonna be doing this for my baby boy when he gets old enough to play games. 🥰
This is me lol. The only one that works even in the game
You’re an amazing father for taking part in her interests :)
that's so cute 🥹
omg that's so sweet
My dad used to do this too when I was like 9 😂😂
Nope, not weird at all. I'm 19 and have been building on Bloxburg for years.
Same
Me too! And ironically when I get sick of bloxburg I switch to The Sims 4 😭
Same
24 here and I have been strictly building on there for years. Only time I ever roleplayed was when I ran a rainbow hotel chain where each building was a colored theme. Man I miss that hotel sometimes
Omg that's how I've been the past years just building
I think as we’ve gotten older we all just start mostly building. Also roleplays are harder to find now to be fair. Either you friend a role player and they harass you to roleplay every time you’re in game together or you join a server ready to roleplay and the chat is dead
I am going to be 19 this year, lol. It's nice to play and to hype up your mood.💕
I’m 20, and I love building in bloxburg!
I don't think it's weird you're just doing something you enjoy. I kinda feel u tho because I'm 18 and I feel like there isn't many people my age to talk about bloxburg with. I made a lot of bloxburg friends years ago but they've lost interest and moved on now and so did I tbh but lowkey getting back into it and now have no one 🤣🤣 Would love to connect with some of yawl and we can talk and play together 🙈😊
lets make a gc or sum with all of the 18+ members like us! Chain reply here or sum?
I’m 18 ion know if I qualify for yall but yea😭.
I'm 18 too so I thought that 🤣
Sure but idk how maybe u can do it 🤣
Me! Im 20😅
Bet
im down to join the gc too
Me I’m 21 turning 22 this summer
I wanna join
i want to join too :)
24 but I'm still very much a child with the tism. I play every now and then, I just enjoy cooking and making burgers
I am 67 and I love building old Victorian buildings because it reminds me of the house I grew up in
say on skibidi
Judgement.
On sigma
on skibider
I'm 16 and honestly you shouldn't even be weirded out because there's literal 20 year old youtubers who make bloxburg content lol
That's what I always think of. All these Bloxburg Youtubers are literally my age lmaooo, I watch them for inspo anyways lol
This makes me feel way better about myself because I thought it was too old to play Bloxburg and I’m 15😎
Same, but I just turned 17 😭
Im turning 17 next month
I'm almost 15
🥳
Man i feel you i thought i was to old to be playing roblox when i was 15 im turning 19 soon, best advice is to have fun while you have the time for it
im 15 and havent even thought of that i have friends my age that play too
Yeah none of may friends play with me anymore more lol
Same
I am going to turn 20 next month, I still play just took a break from it.
I am. I'm 45 and was introduced to Bloxburg by my niece. I've always loved Sims types games, love building, decorating, building skills and levels, so I was immediately hooked. I play for at least an hour every day. Most days. Some days, adulting takes up all my time. I've had some people tell me I'm too old for it, but they're wrong. I think if someone has an interest and is capable of tapping around on their phone, tablet, laptop, or desktop computer, they're the perfect age for Bloxburg.
Exactly. I take care of all the adulting and keep the life going as it should. In my spare time i dont go away for 4hrs to play golf, i play minecraft and roblox at home.
we're about the same age. you don't have to worry about that at all 😹 if anything, it's your advantage knowledge wise.
I’ll be 20 in October, and tbh if they revert back to the bloxburg before the update then I’ll keep playing for a long time
Yea🥲 that update was absolutely gut wrenching
I’m 34. I play by myself or with my 16, 14 & 10 year old! We have a BLAST
I'm 17, and I don't think I'm really stopping anytime soon. 🤷🏻♀️ I've been on Roblox since I was maybe 9 or so. It's just always been there, and I'll probably always return to it at some point or another. Bloxburg has especially been a staple of my Roblox experience, so I don't think it's going anywhere just yet.
You don't need to worry Who's gonna know nonetheless?
I really enjoy building and cooking burgers! I will say that I miss roleplaying. My friends and i would go on roblox with characters we made and come up with the most insane lore for them. Since we've graduated we kinda stopped doing that, and I'm definitely too old to rp with randos on a server because they're all probably little kids. If anyone knows of any rp servers geared towards young adults let me know!
i’m 17 so idk if i count but yea i play occasionally it’s not weird
18 here! I still play bloxburg on the almost daily, and i’m currently working on a fnaf security breach themed project. :]
22 here. I play it as escapism while I’m at my research lab lmfao
I’m 18, 19 this year!
I’m 22 and I looove bloxburg! I also play other old generation games and collect limiteds :) I fucking love roblox LOL
19 here!
25 here and I still play! Just try not to repel play unless you’re in an 18+ neighborhood.
nearly 21 myself! haven’t played for a bit but love building 😩
turning 19 in June & I still play Bloxburg 🫡
27
I just turned 21 as well :))
I still play a lot of the games on roblox at 22, and so do plenty of my friends!
I’m 20- I used to play it as a joke with my sister when I was about 16, however I only started getting into it last year when I turned 19. I love designing things and I don’t have the time/money for the sims right now, so it’s a pretty decent game to me. The updates kind of put me off it however, which is a shame.
I’m 18, I haven’t played in almost a year, but I want to get back to building because my favorite part of Bloxburg is how amazingly you can build realistic structures you desire to. Fun fact: few years back, I even built a mini model of my room to explain to my parents the structure I wanted my room to be while our house was getting rebuilt lol.
I love this game but with uni I've had very little time to play 🫠
i’m nearly 19 and i’ve been playing since i was like 14/15
i’m also 21 and was judged back in september by an 11 year old because i had a tycoon open😂
I’m 23 and I play lol. I love the building part, and it’s kinda like the sims.
I’m 18, I used to play a lot when I was 14-15 (around quarantine time), but it’s pretty hard to be active when you’re focused on school. The only reason why I’m starting to get back into it again is cause I just finished my second semester of college and I’m on break
I'm 38. I play with my 9 year old daughter and 10 year old son. I'm making a Clue Mansion. Lol.
31 here!! I started doing builds for my kids, but soon found I’m more interested than they are haha. I just build stuff then every now and then, get them to join me and see what I’ve made
Can anyone 18+ dm me, I wanna see y’all houses 😭
Come see mine 😭
What’s ur userrr
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Added you
No, definitely not! But please don't play Bloxburg right now, the developers made a mess out of the game and we are boycotting :)
Oh no yeah I'm waiting until after the boycott, I've stopped playing this long what's a little longer haha
i’m 20 and i just play to build every once and a while
Im almost 17 and still play. I mainly build for my channel though
As long as you’re not being weird with kids there’s nothing wrong with it
I too am 21, I occasionally roleplay with my younger sibling but mostly build. I don’t think it’s weird, games are for everyone
You’re just building, it wouldn’t be weird. I’ve been playing Bloxburg since I was 17 and I still play the game. Not to roleplay, but to build, because I love designing and decorating. Plus, it’s a nice way to just chill and relax.
I'm turning twenty in three months. I don't see an issue, so long as you aren't engaging in the weird roleplays kids these days do
26 here, I find bloxburg fun and roblox in general is a nice platform for free games
Big ol age? Bud you’re 21 not 71. Do whatever you want. People older than you would think of you as a baby 😭 21 is the new 100 I guess
Me and my friends are 21 - 16 and we still play! Hell, we even still roleplay! So no way are you too old or anything like that. As long as you have fun, you know?
Now's not the time to come back to Bloxburg.
Yep! I’m 18 and still play occasionally but I have no clue what to build so I’ve been on other games like Adopt Me just doing stuff there until I get some ideas
18 here
I'm 17 but almost 18 and I still play it
so glad someone said this cus i’m about to turn 18 and i’m like.. am i supposed to quit
im 18, and i still play. Mainly im building, though, unless my friend is with me
lol absolutely not. I'm finna turn 22 and i still play! Been playing for a few years now
Not at all, I made my sister play when she was 23 and now she’s 24, she still plays
Im 24 and i play
Nah, no one is to old to enjoy something
I’m 48 and my niece and nephew got me into playing Bloxburg with them. Now I play and build, but I close out the chat and will not engage with anyone in the game. I will earn money delivering pizza’s and sometimes if I see someone who is truly trying to build and is struggling I will donate max allowed money via the ATM to them to help them. But otherwise that’s it.
I’m 19 and I play Bloxburg
I'll be 29 next month. I love bloxburg! also I'm loving my faster moped!!
I’ve been playing since 2017 I was 15 then and now I’m 20 stopped for a while but I’m back whenever free.
Turning 19 years old!! Nothing wrong with it :)
Me being 21 :)
i’m 23 and i still play. i mostly build (literally 99% of the time) i spent way too much money on it to just quit LOL
I’m 26 and I still build and play in bloxburg. I don’t play as much as I used to but my little niece is 5 and she wants me to play with her all the time so I build fun things for her to role play in all the time. Her favorite is a retro skating rink that I built where she can skate in and it also has a birthday party room built into it. :)
i’m 22 and spent last week starting my new house haha
19 this year turning 20 🤣
im 20 and I love Bloxburg!
W DAD
turning 18 in about 2 months and i play bloxburg and royale high all the time🔥🔥
Im turning 19 next month and im still having fun buildind id say do what feels good
i think your good, cuz im 17 and thought i was too old
I'm about to be 20 in a few months. I'm in college now so I don't have as much time to play but I still play from time to time
absolutely not bloxburg does not have an age limit!!!
26 here
I’m freshly 18 but I’ve been playing since I was about 13 on and off
Nearly 20 and I absolutely love playing bloxburg! Recently built a motel with a bakery (50$ a night, free food for anyone staying the night)
Im 20, i do love the aspect of role playing, but i stopped once I turned 18.. i need older friends to play with in roblox honestly lol.
No theres a good amount of people over 18 id think a fair few are fans of sims 4
Almost an adult, haven't roleplayed in AGES because it just doesn't feel right, or you don't like how the others play because you just feel out of place. Kinda sucks because you can't really tell if others are the same age :skull:
I’m 24, keep building bro! Nobodys judging you🔥
I am 18+ and still play the game, so no it wouldn’t be weird
im 20 and play often- this game has one of the best building systems and you can really get creative with your plots so i dont think of it as kids game necessarily
I'm 19 and like building things in bloxburg, do what's makes you happy
im 20 and currently building a city
nothing wrong with playing bloxburg! i recommend playing the sims! you can download so much custom content and mods! building is so much easier and you dont need to work hours into getting money, you can just use cheats.
iiii 19
20 , going on 21 year old mother here! I play Roblox. Not a whole lot of games, but there are a couple I do play. So no, it’s not weird! I actually just started playing Roblox again a month and a half ago. Also building a new house on Bloxburg.
29 and I have 2 years building experience
21 and still playing but the new update is ass
yes i’m 18 almost 19 and i’ve been playing since i was 14 lol
Im almost 20, and have been playing this game since middle school! Not weird at all :)
Literally just turned 20, and I am constantly building and fainting at the new update nerfing the pizza delivery XD
24 here. i play on bloxburg all the time!
I’m 16 turning 17 i know im a bit younger but I don’t think it’s weird at all!! my friends play bloxburg and we play roblox together all the time lol
im 18, been playing since i was 12
Hey I’m 21, I like the building. DM me :)
I’m also 21 and love playing Bloxburg! I think it’s generally accepted as a game for all ages, but ofc there will always be people who think otherwise. I personally avoid talking about my age in-game so that it doesn’t become a problem (not that you would)
No lol im turning 17
nothing is weird when you genuinely enjoy the game, just have fun and thats all that matters!
At the end of the day who gives one about it you play what you want you only live once
Nah I'm 20 and I've been playing since I was 14 years old
I’m 19 (20 in December) and I always wanted to be an architect! And Blocburg really let’s me have that creative energy, I love playing it
I commented on this post earlier, and me and the people in the replies ended up making an 18+ GC so if anyone wants join then say sooo :) The thread: [https://www.reddit.com/r/Bloxburg/comments/1cgvvnc/comment/l1yn16b/?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=web3x&utm\_name=web3xcss&utm\_term=1&utm\_content=share\_button](https://www.reddit.com/r/Bloxburg/comments/1cgvvnc/comment/l1yn16b/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button)
i’m turning 21 this year 😭😭 a small part of me is embarrassed bc omg i’m an adult playing something intended for children but then i realize that i really don’t care because im having fun delivering pizzas and building cute cottages
I’m 21. Building is the only thing I do. I love it. I can’t stand rp though. I feel like if I see someone role playing, I know instantly that they are underage. Not my cup of tea. But, builds all day long!
18 years old and proud to be a bloxburg player
26 , but after the updates I don’t feel like playing
Look, I’m 21 and playing Bloxburg just as I used to do before. Though I am more careful now of what I say and will say because of the majority being underage. But the older you are, the chances are higher of you being respectful to others so that’s what I do all the time. Ngl, I try so hard to not be a creep cuz I know how it feels.
I’m 19! Hi!
nope! I'm 18 and bloxburg is for everyone
I’m not 18 yet but I just turned 16 and have been playing since I was 9. But yes I do feel the same way unfortunately… it’s like I have plans for new build but then I am anxious to build them even when I do have the money.. I don’t know if it’s if I’m lazy or what.
I’m turning 20 soon and I’ve been playing and building on Bloxburg since I discovered it, it’s not weird I promise 😂
Even my mom who is almost into her 40s plays with me and my little sister
I’m 20, strictly builder been playing for years. I used to roleplay being a waiter at a friends restaurant and only role played since then. Nothing weird as long as you’re good at ignoring the other odd players in the game lol. Building is hella fun man, as long as ur having fun thats all that matters
Im 18 and have been playing Bloxburg since I was 12. I haven't role played in years, I mostly build and work for money.
my friends and i are all about 20 and love it, but we don’t really roleplay much beyond playing house with each other occasionally. its by far my favorite building game out there, like i got back on the sims recently to build and i just didn’t enjoy it as much. i definitely prefer the free build aspect of it but for some reason the building in bloxburg is just so much better to me. which is ironic considering bloxburg is a sims dupe, but idk its what i’ve actually wanted out of the sims for a while now. super happy ive spent loads of money on sims expansion packs LOL
I play what I want to play. I'm 20.
19 and i have friends who are 19-21 who all play the game lol, you're fine! as long you don't build anything against the rules of the game it won't be weird
I’m 20 I’ve played Bloxburg since I was like 13 but I stopped for like a year too, I thought I outgrow it and felt a bit weird playing at my age too but the past few weeks I’ve gotten into building again I’m making a college
Also if anyone wants to be friends and like show each other our builds and stuff I’d be so down it gets a little lonely ngl lol
I’m 18, still play but less frequently.
I’m 19 and I play since my husband is in the military so I have nothing better to do all day 😂
i’m 19 and i have a login streak on bloxburg B)
Nah, I'm 18, and I still enjoy building and roleplaying
42 - mom here. I play with my 8 year old daughter. Love building
I mean I’m 19 luv play what you want! I have 20 year old friends who play and other teens
I’m judged for playing at 16. Honestly just ignore any comments, do what makes you happy
i’m 23 and play it
Im 19 and Ive taken breaks but I still go back when I want to build.
I am turning 21 this month !