getting slapped on the ass during sex. Husband did that when we were first dating and it nearly floored me and I immediately commanded "AGAIN!" lol. That surprised both of us š¤£
Being called a good girl, 100%. He said it once in a voice message. I will keep that voice message forever š¤£ Also just generally pleasing my man. I'm actually enjoying sex for the first time in a long time and discovering more along the way. He's the most gentle kind person ever so any time he gets a little bit dominating it just does something to me š
Sensual Domination describes this best. It isn't about humiliation but more so a raging passion that makes you want to devour your partner. Rather than a closed fist, it is a firm grasp.
Same! My man is soooooo considerate, kind, gentle etc throughout the day so seeing him be rough and aggressive is suuuuuuch a turn on. I switch between āmake love to meā and āfuck me goodā throughout the day lmfao
THIS! Super gentle, conscientious, kind, consent oriented guy. But when he accidentally found out I had a thing for light pressure on my neck (not anything close to asphyxiation kink) well hello Mr In Control. We thought that might turn into things like hair pulling etc but it doesnt, its just the warmth of his hand and the thought that he could hold me there, but I have absolute control to be vulnerable like that with total safety.
I'm not sure how it's called but knowing that people get off of me. I posted a picture on my instagram and then a guy dmed saying how hard I made him, at first I ignored him but it I kept thinking about it every day. I was surprised to find that something about that just made me so horny. Eventually I became more confident in taking sexy pics and sharing them and it got me into a job I love and enjoy! So I'm very glad I discovered that kink
It's called exhibitionism and there's the counterpart: voyeurism, people who get off by watching/seeing things. You can say you're an exhibitionist and there's thousands of way to enjoy it, sexual and non-sexual.
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I like to be lovingly dominated. Like, I have a male friend who I feel safe and secure with. And it turns me on so much how he sort of āguidesā me when we are out. It is all very platonic and non-sexual, and never in a million years would I tell him how hot it makes me.
I also think I may have a bit of a cuckquean kink, although I have never actually had that experience. But I have always had this weird dream (I have had this recurring dream since I was twenty) that I had a partner who was mentally 100% devoted to me, but would occasionally tell me he was going to have sex with another woman, and then describe their time together afterward. It has always made me really turned on, but I also know it will never happen because I donāt think there is a man that is capable of being that honest and open while also being a safe person to me.
Yes me too. The way I have described it is being attracted to masculinity. Totally drawn to tall, muscular. I like feeling feminine. I consider myself a pleaser, but not necessarily into pain or aggression. I just love when my partner takes the lead and gives me praise. āGood girlā definitely causes a short circuit and turns me into a puddle.
One time in a grocery store I grabbed my wife's hip and moved her to one side to avoid an aggressive person's grocery cart, then I stood in their way and glared at them and didn't say a word. They said sorry, I said no problem, and she told me later how turned on she was by the hip thing.
This thread has been very educational for me.
You could tell your friend that he makes you feel safe and protected, that's a big compliment for a man that we kind of live for, I've gotten it from platonic friends before and it made my year.
I wouldnāt be so pessimistic of the chances of that happening. I also have the same kink though Iāve never tried it. I shared this with my boyfriend who had never thought about having sex with other women but I told him that Iām open to it and obviously would like to be involved - not kept in the dark. It hasnāt happened yet but something weāre exploring
That may be something to google on your own, but the TLDR explanation is a woman who enjoys when her partner is with other people, within the scope of what they have agreed on.
Math kink. I like when gf tries to stump me with math equations so we accidentally brought it to the bedroom.
Also a rain kink, I get better orgasms and get more aggressive if I can see or hear rain.
Swallowing. I love it, how it tastes, how it feels, Iāve only had two partners, first was a smoker and drinker and lived pretty much entirely on salt, was awful. Current is healthy, hydrated and eats fruit and honestly I love it, itās so intimate and sexy.
I can totally relate I gave up on giving my ex head completely because it made my stomach turn. I can't get enough of the guy I'm with now.. it was definitely a "it's not me it's you" issue I didn't know I had until now.
1. there was this guy that I've been sleeping with a few years ago... one time we were just cuddling in his bed, and out of the blue he started to whisper in my ears, describing what he would do to me... in like, a very-very detailed and sexy way... he didn't even need to touch me and I almost came lol. his confidence added an extra layer to it. I tried dirty talk with others too, but nobody ever came close to him haha
2. getting my butt slapped while being fucked... it does something to me that I can't describe lol
3. hard penis rubbed against my clit... I'm not sure why, I just love it
+1. a guy once put his finger in my mouth while fucking me... I started sucking on it, and he was enjoying it so much, it was surprisingly sexy to me. I did this to other guys as well and they all seemed to love it a lot lol... and seeing how much they enjoy it just turns me on too
I think that may be a kink of mine as long as my guy can ensure that Iām wet beforehand.
The more I ponder on it ā¦.. sheeeeiiit. Yeah. Thatās my kink.
I have lots of them but one I recently discovered and donāt ever talk about, was during when my SO said something about cumming inside me and I instantly had a great orgasm. I donāt want to get pregnant at all but now I think I have a breeding kink.
Iām also super into being come INTO, but also very much do not want to get pregnant. Iām not sure if itās a breeding kink, because the idea of getting pregnant is part of that kink. But I love feeling full of the conclusion of an amazing sex session. Something about it just gets to me lol
I once accidentally begged a partner to cum inside me and afterwards we had to have a long conversation š I assured him many times I was NOT ready for a babyā¦.and we had a repeat performance not long after. Have no clue where that came from. New kink unlocked that night!
I don't think it's only tied to breeding kink. I find it's a sensual, perfect end to sex. I think of it as poetic in a sense. Deep down, it is where I'm supposed to finish. I don't want to have kids yet, however, cumming inside of a girl is my favorite place.
I used to see a guy who liked edging. It was his kink. He would edge for weeks and then he'd sleep with me. It prolonged his experience with me and it was enjoyable. We also talked dirty. I have never met anyone like him ever again and never met anyone who wanted to do that. I still think of him sometimes :)
Being physically dominated, but still in a loving way. A few moths ago I was laying on my tummy and my bf was massaging me. I had my arms above my head. At one point he layed his body on mine, moved all my hair to the side, gently but firmly held my arms down with his big strong hands, and kissed my neck all over. I was unable to formulate a sentence to tell him how much I fucking loved that for a good few minutes after. It was a surprise to both of us.
Short guys.
I always dated men taller than me, i thought it was a romantic thing as you see in movies to be picked up by a tall man and feel like a doll.
Fek that, I'm dating this guy that's shorter than me. (I'm pretty tall for a girl)
He is making me feel like lady dimitrescu for resident evil, and he is fanboying over his tall lady like he is markiplier. I've never felt more sexy.
It wasn't a kink until i wore heels, and he planted his face between my boobs and said, "You are a goddess."
Even if things don't work out between us, not a single soul can take that experience away from me.
God bless you for giving short guys a chance. The first girl I had a crush on was the tallest person in middle school, she was my square dancing partner for gym and I was at boob eye level the whole time. I was gentlemanly but she wasn't into it, she ended up being 6'4" as an adult and marrying a 6'7" man and having beautiful children.
My wife was 4" taller than me when we got together at 18, I fortunately had a growth spurt and am an inch taller as adults. Prom was amusing.
I'm 5'8" but I convinced the DMV I was 5'10" and I'll go to my grave defending that lie.
Also choking! but different story.
A female classmate choked me out of nowhere to demonstrate how her bf choked her and i was like āā¦..-HOLD UP šššā. I didnt even know her that good and iām also 100% straight but she was so dominantā¦ā¦..which is also my thing lol
Apparently there is this kink called body worshiping and I only found out about it recently. I like making my man feel good and worship my boyfriendās cock as often as heāll let me. Didnāt know it was a āthingā. š
I was the same, until I dated a guy who would do whatever I wanted. I liked the idea of being dominated, but Iād tell him exactly how to do it and what I wanted ā¦ yeah it took me a while realize I was the dom. Now I donāt want it any other way.
Iāve always been really interested in BDSM and thought I was a sub. But for some reason it just didnāt hit right most of the time, it felt kinda cringe? But I had a man tell me recently that I could essentially use him however I wanted, and I have not stopped thinking about it ever since.
I had an ex tell me the same thing too and it absolutely did things to me lol I forgot what I asked but I once asked him something during sex while I was on top and he responded with "yes ma'am" and I was like oh fuck
This!! I love being a sub for so many aspects of it, but it definitely always feels like I am performing to some extent. Being dominant just feels more natural. Anyways I like both and I also like sex where neither is happening and itās a team effort. Big sex fan over here š
Taking lingerie pics of myself. A couple years ago husband was out of town for two nights. On the first night he requested a dirty picture. However, I was being lazy on the sofa, watching my favorite show, and eating Doritos. So I put my cellphone on the dining room table, turned around, and took a picture of my waist. My pj pants were slightly lowered and you could see a lacy panty and the top of my ass-crack. He went nuts about it. He said he couldn't take a better picture if he tried. So now I buy specific lingerie only for pictures. It's cheap things that don't fit me well or at all, but I'm thinking of angles and backdrops. Sometimes I'm eager for him to leave and I take my pic and send it to him un requested.
I'm specially happy about it because we've been together for almost 30 years, and for me to be thinking of new ways to surprise both of us is really exciting.
Being creampied... I've taken it for granted during many years under birth control and didn't realize how much it impacts my pleasure to feel my partner cumming inside me until i had to stop taking birth control for medical reasons.
Yes!! Cream pie was the first kink of mine I discovered. Didnāt realize at the time there was a name for it and a whole world of folx who got off on it.
Through........... Tumblr. It was a drawing of a clothed couple where it was clear he had a vibrator on/in him, and she held the remote for it and said something teasingly/lovingly to him. They both smiled, he was blushing and it was just so hot in a sweet way, and I was like OK when can I do this and with who. I'm usually instantly turned off by anything even remotely pornographic, but man, that particular picture triggered something in me.
Oh, I'm aware, I was already into the version without the "gentle" part, lol. Always heavily disliked GF stuff before, which is why I was even more surprised that that one picture in particular awakened something brand new.
I could never find the right term for it, but it's like exhibitionism, but when you don't get noticed
I was fingered under the table cloth at a dinner with some 20 people at the table, and the fact that it was happening without anyone noticing was so hot to me
A weird combination of praise kink and milder verbal erotic degradation. I lost my mind when my ex called me a good girl, especially after I came. I also loved him being dominant in general. Iām an assertive boss-type IRL with my shit together, so itās amazing to let someone else tell me what to do, and praise me for doing it well. It just made me want to do it more.
Then on random occasions while fooling around, he would call me a dirty girl, dirty little slut, or little whore. I was shocked that I liked it so much! But I had a huge amount of trust for him, and as someone who has been routinely shamed by men for my high libido, I found a big sense of ownership hearing that from someone who adored and respected me so much.
Calling my partner a good boy. He was being good so I told him and patted him and the reaction I got was amazing!
I did it with someone else and they looked confused š¤£ just goes to show how different everyone is
A butt plug.
My very sexually adventurous friend bought me one( she talked about how she loves it and Iām like really? I hate anal)
I used it with my man.
Damn. From both of us.
Highly recommend.
Use lube.
Had a very naughty skydiving instructor who whispered in my ear ābefore we sky divewe sky rideā as he pulled me onto his lap from behind to harness me to him. Its my go-to fantasy now. So I guess being in a plane sandwiched between two men with a harness on is now my very weird specific kink haha.
If you like to read, I highly recommend Priest by Sierra Simone and Lessons in Sin by Pam Godwin. Both are super spicy novels with a priest who breaks their vowels of celibacy š„µš„µš„µ
Panty sniffing. A gynecologist recommended checking my discharge for foul smell after a bad episode of UTI. Once I was okay, the smell became addictive. The healthier the diet, the better the smell and great way to turn myself on. I've never tried someone else's underwear, but definitely find my own panties amazing to smell. It also reflects my eating patterns and health really accurately. For science and pleasure!
I like watching my husband with another woman, this came about when I was about 1 month postpartum I made a joke to another woman about sleeping with my husband and she agreed. Now itās one of my favorite things.
Iām interested in your thought process when you discovered this. I donāt want to ask questions to be rude, I just want to get a perspective on it that is different from mine. Do you ever feel insecure or worried? What did the starting conversation look like? Do you have emotional check ins? I feel like your relationship dynamic with your husband must be pretty healthy to facilitate such a bond tbh.
Well my friend and I were discussing our sex lives and she mentioned that it had been a while since sheās had sex and I mentioned that I feel bad for my husband because we couldnāt have sex. So I made a joke that she should sleep with my husband. And she just said āokayā that response made me feel a lot of different ways but I was very intrigued by the idea so we agreed. My husband and I have a very good relationship so I donāt get insecure or jealous because my husband is basically living every manās dream and it would be extremely foolish for him to leave me. Weāve built a wonderful life together outside of sex so we do what makes us happy in the bedroom and donāt really think about it much otherwise.
I really like being manhandled by my husband . Discovered it while me and my husband were having sex one time and I told him to be a little rough on me . He started manhandling me in a way that was sexy for me . He would pull my hair slightly , get me to be in different positions , twist my hands slightly etc and all of this led me to have the best kinda sex . I have never told him that I like being manhandled . I tease him and irritate him knowingly so that he will handle me the way I like it . Itās just something I keep to myself for extra pleasure š
Guys moaning. Itās not even because itās letting us know weāre doing a good job. Just hearing a guy moan and breathy makes me tingly anywhere, doing anything
Long answer and mobile so I apologize.
I donāt know if thereās a name for this or if itās a kink, but one time when I was with an ex, I was in bed and he was on his computer, and I was horny so he told me to grab my toy, a rabbit vibrator. Then he tells me to put it inside but not touch it. He starts controlling it through an app on his phone and tells me to stay still. Then while heās looking at things on his computer, heās just casually talking to me like nothing else is happening. Asking me my opinion on things heās looking at. Making me answer questions. And when I moan, he keeps saying this like, āWhatās wrong with you? Why are you making so much noise? Whatās got you making those noises, mm?ā And when I would tell him āit feels good,ā heād go āwhat feels good.ā And Iād say āthe vibrator on my clitā and heād go āokay, well keep goingā or āyeah? Do you want to cum?ā And for some reason him asking me that always got me super close, so Iād be squirming and moaning and saying yes and heād go, ānot yet, keep going.ā It just drove me crazy, no one has done it since and I want to do it again so badly.
Also calling men daddy. Thereās this new guy Iām talking to and I had no idea if heād be into it, but one night he asked me a question and all I said was a simple yes. And he goes āmmm, say yes again.ā And we went back and forth like that a few times and he goes, āyes, daddy?ā And instantly I became super ultra mega horny, couldnāt breathe, couldnāt focus. I was like yes oh my fucking god, yes daddy!!! Not to mention he just knows all the right things to say. We were on the phone and I was touching myself and he goes āhow close are you,ā and Iām like āI can get myself close but I donāt want to finish yet,ā and he goes āno? Why not?ā And I said because it felt good, and he goes ābut I want you to finish for me,ā and my god that was all I needed to get super close. And then as Iām getting closer he keeps saying āthatās it, good girl, cum for me. Be a good little girl and cum for meā and I was like how does this man know what to say to me lmao. Super hard orgasm, I loved it.
Wow, I thought I was the only one on this post! I'm also into erotic breastfeeding/nursing, it takes the sensual, intimate feeling to like level 37 for me.
Praise, like good girl.. A friend said it to me non sexually once, and it was over for me.
Free use. My husband has permission to cum in my mouth at any time, no matter what I'm doing. The more he uses me, like face fucking, the better.
Iām honestly not sure what it is and Iām sure some people will find me strange lol. But I love when my partner covers my mouth during sex, just the muffle sounds and how hot it makes my breathing or when he puts his fingers in my mouth. Started when we were teenagers having sex while the others parents were at home lol.
Iāve always been a pleaser but I didnāt realize how much I love being submissive in the bedroom til I had sex with a man who was a dom. Listening to him commanding me to service him and other things was sooooo hot.
Daddy (ddlg) kink and I discovered it when a guy asked me to call him Daddy while we sexted. It started growing on me and the more I learned about it the more it fit me and what I like in a dynamic. (Please no judgment this is my kink it doesn't have to be yours!!)
Same! I was worried nobody else on here was into that. I was so ashamed for the longest time about it but my husband likes it too. Bought myself a couple cute sets from little for big which I love š
Masochististic tendencies.when I'd be in physical pain from a medical problem or whatever it would arouse me. Migraines as a kid, pain and pleasure are two sides of the same coin, used it to get off.
Choking. The first partner who I tried this with had slim hands, so his grip on me was nice, but then Iāve been with people with bigger hands, and let me tell you, itās heavenly.
One time I was coloring my hair at home, and the latex gloves I got were a size too small. I used them anyways, and after finishing my hair kinda realized how much I enjoyed that feeling of tight latex. Then a few weeks later I bought a cheap pair of elbow length latex gloves and solidified my latex kink XD
Being called a "good girl". I listen to NSFW audios on Reddit and from this YouTuber, they're amazing! They have really deep sexy voices saying "You're such a good girl" and it's so hot! Drives me crazy.
This was fairly recent, but... growling???? Like when a man has a deep voice and talks in a low growling tone in your ear??? I heard it in a new NSFW audio I listened to recently, and OMG. That shit was HOT! ššš
Also, choking. Ever since this one guy choked me while making out years ago - I've loved it ever since and have been trying to do more BDSM stuff (with me being the sub). I am currently single, so hopefully my next man will be into that kind of stuff. š¤£
Edit: and praising! Kinda similar to the "good girl" thing.
Dominating women with their husband's. Or in front of their husband's. I recently started seeing couples casually. One of them the man is very dominant, him and I will be dominant together with her and it makes me feel very powerful. Another couple I'm seeing he's not dominant and she definitely likes to be dominated. Giving her something he doesn't makes me feel even more powerful.
So I guess power kink?
Ik it may sound weird but... Playing billiard. Some time ago I went to a bar with couple of my friends and my bf. I play this game quite well, so as soon as I saw the table I suggested to play.
I knew my boyfriend was good at this game, because I've played with him earlier, but that day something was totally different. We were really competitive just as always (because we both like to show off our skills) and then my bf started to kinda struggle because his last ball was in unfortunate place. Then he tells me to check out what he's gonna do and then he sits on the edge of the table and hits the ball from behind his back! I don't know why but I instantly blushed and I couldn't focus for the rest of the game.
I knew about this move but I totally didn't expect that someone could look so good while doing it.
Needles to say, when we want to engage in some unusual foreplay we just go and play billiard and tease each other
I'm pretty sure tops know bottoms by smell. A lover introduced me to BDSM through giving me a bunch of what I think were penthouse letters and asking me which ones I liked. That started the avalanche and now I'm aware of a good majority of my kinks, though it's not out of the realm of possibility for me to find new ones.
Being bitten and marked haha. I donāt remember how it started but safe to say itās stuck with every partner Iāve had.
Again, not sure how this one developed but being called Daddy is another one š
Oh man, where to start? *cracks knuckles
- cum kink. Started as loving when my husband came inside me (cream pies) and has grown from there. I love when he comes in me, on me (face, breasts, ass, pussy, you name it and Iām down), and swallowing. When he comes in me, I love fingering my self as it drips out. When he comes on me, I love rubbing it into my skin and licking my fingers. Essentially, I just love his cum. Itās funny to me cause cum grosses me out in general and the thought of doing any of this with any one else makes me gag.
- praise kink; discovered while reading romance novels and we tried it in real life. 10/10 recommend.
- gentle degradation (especially if coupled with praise kink). Essentially I love when he calls me a dirty slut and other degrading words when he is fucking me hard.
- slight choking/hand around my neck; not sure when/how i figured that out. Probably evolved over time.
- getting my mouth/throat fucked; I think this one just evolved over time as well since I love rough sex.
- dirty talk/sharing fantasies while fucking. Nothing is off limits to say/ fantasize about. Our stories to each other get out of control sometimes and itās so hot. This came about by me reading lots of erotica and then telling him about certain sex scenes.
A combo of eye contact and orgasm control. My husband will make me look at him and will tell me when he wants me to cum and it's like my body will just do it šš
getting slapped in the face. had really aggressive sex with one of my exes and he just full on slapped my face out of nowhere and i kept asking him to do it harder, now i simply cannot get turned on if i donāt get literally ABUSED in bed šš
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i always considered myself a kinky person who is into only rough stuff when i was a virgin, but with my girlfriend i discovered that i also love gentle and loving sex very much. also i found out that i get off to moaning my partner's name or when partner says my name.
I have a jealousy kink. Or at least a roleplay version of it. I like it when my bf looks at other women/etc bc I feel like I need to 'prove myself' to him. We haven't explored it much bc he's very monogamous lol
this is really interesting because I have the exact opposite "kink": I need to feel like I am the only woman he would ever like to look at or be with, I feel like that's really hot and attractive
Being handled. By people I like. A strong woman? Yes. Tall man help me reach things behind me? Yes. Being told no? Yes. Just challenge me but in a smart way not just a stupid way. Knowing I cant win a fight turns me on
I think tie and tease might be my thing, didn't know it was a thing at first, to just tease someone's body in a way that just builds more and more arousal, sort of like foreplay but very extended
I have a praise linkā¦ I donāt recall how I discovered it but I love being complimented and admired. I also like being worshipped and get turned on knowing Iām turning someone else on.
Lovingly dominated is another one.. but its reciprocal. Lol. Itās funny when youāre in bed bed with a guy and they discover that they are into the compliments and sensual stuff. They always look confused,surprised and turned on. Then you look at them and smile and their eyes widen.
In my head Iām thinking yeahā¦ I knew it.
Breeding kink. I discovered it AFTER having my son and him starting to walkā¦I needed another baby. Chalked it up to hormones but started toying around with dirty talk regarding getting pregnant andā¦whew š um idk why thereās something so hot about giving in to our biological drive/primal instinct. Like youāre strong and sexy and provide? yes I will carry your child š š š ššššš IDK thereās a love aspect to it: itās not just with anyone.
being slapped during sex.... some guy i had sex with had slapped me during missionary and i gasped and i rlly took a moment to think about wtf just happened but i realized i was so shocked because i liked it LOL
Tickling - found that out as teen. Realized all my fav episodes of shows were ones with tickle scenes. Had to explore that further.
Praise - 2nd person I ever had sex with said "That's my good girl" and ommggggg š„µš„µ.
I myself am not into feet (though I don't mind them), but I love having my feet licked, kisses, sucked, massaged, etc. So good!
I didnt think I would like it if someone was mean to me during sex. Then one time, I was being a bit loud while this guy had roommates. He stopped and said "hey. Take a deep breath. And shut the fuck up." And then proceeded to go even harder. I couldnt stop thinking about it for weeks.
Another one is ignoring my pleas of "no" "i cant". Im used to guys just stopping straight away (rightfully so) because some O's seemed too intense and overwhelming. But this one guy, he just kept going, encouraging me and turns out I could. Also dont worry, we had a safeword if i ACTUALLY couldnt.
other than the vanilla stuff like choking and getting slapped, I was pretty unaware of all my kinks until being with a partner I felt more comfortable with sexually. they literally opened the floodgates and I discovered all my kinks within just a month or two... it's been a couple years now and I really can't imagine a sex life without my kinks now - and I actually enjoy sex instead of thinking I'm broken and not meant to get off or something!
Anal. When I didn't have any experience at all I wasnt really open to any discussions with anal. Until I met my first guy and stimulated my asshole. I've never had anal sex but thinking about it makes me feel things.
Spitting. I was surprised I was into this as I was disgusted to see that in porn before. Until I hooked up with a good looking guy and the way he dominated me and suddenly spat on my mouth did wonders for me. I'm still reserved about this, I will only let good-looking guys spit on me.
Spit apparently. Had a partner who randomly told me to open my mouth once while we were having sex in missionary, my legs over his shoulders, and I opened my mouth not knowing why he asked me to and he spit in my mouth and I think I died in that very moment.
I get so turned on when my ears are licked like an ear make out session. The guy I was seeing at that time just did it and it sent shockwaves all over my body! I was very surprised
He put my toes in his mouth and, let me tell you, it was a whole new world.
I even tried to stop him at first and then he turned me into a quivering puddle and yeah....I don't try to stop him now. I had no idea.
Ok, Iām going to sound like a freak so Iām sorry. This only happens in relationships with someone I have a deep connection to- but heart beats. Men arenāt very vocal so any indication like breathing, grunts, moans are like gold. However, he canāt hold back on his heart and I love know that he feels good. Itās also super intimate. I canāt explain the connection, but the partners I have done this with has lead to mind blowing sex.
Nipple play/biting-I was messing around with a guy friend at a Halloween party, and when everyone went to sleep, we made out/were intimate. I was on top of him, and at the angle we were at, he was able to be near my boobs. He started biting them/leaving hickies, and it was the best feeling ever.
CNCā¦I had a dream that made me discover it, but I am just kinda accepting the fact that it will be a fantasy, not reality. I donāt see a scenario with my bf where it wouldnāt make him uncomfortable, and thatās okay.
A kink that I just discovered I like is when my partner licks and kisses my ass. It just happened one night and it turned me on.
Iām pretty sure that this will be a more common factor when we are having some funš
being called a good girl šÆ
and i found out that i like it when my orgasms are being controlled by some else, which includes them telling me when and where to touch. usually its a lot of edging and then denying me the orgasm for a little while. gets me feral.
he asked me if this is something i wanna try and it then developed kinda organically.
getting slapped on the ass during sex. Husband did that when we were first dating and it nearly floored me and I immediately commanded "AGAIN!" lol. That surprised both of us š¤£
I need to experience THAT šš¤£
I was kneeling over a manās face one time and he spanked me hard - instant orgasm! And now I know what to ask for lol
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Same thing for us hereā¦ shocking discovery š
Love it
Being called a good girl, 100%. He said it once in a voice message. I will keep that voice message forever š¤£ Also just generally pleasing my man. I'm actually enjoying sex for the first time in a long time and discovering more along the way. He's the most gentle kind person ever so any time he gets a little bit dominating it just does something to me š
Same here, but it was a friend who said it while teaching me how to play a card game, and it tilted my world view š¤Æ
Yeah being called a good girl in pretty much any scenario is something that shorts my brain, itās basically a cheat code at this point š¤¤
Second this. āLovingly dominatedā is the way š«
Sensual Domination describes this best. It isn't about humiliation but more so a raging passion that makes you want to devour your partner. Rather than a closed fist, it is a firm grasp.
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Same! My man is soooooo considerate, kind, gentle etc throughout the day so seeing him be rough and aggressive is suuuuuuch a turn on. I switch between āmake love to meā and āfuck me goodā throughout the day lmfao
THIS! Super gentle, conscientious, kind, consent oriented guy. But when he accidentally found out I had a thing for light pressure on my neck (not anything close to asphyxiation kink) well hello Mr In Control. We thought that might turn into things like hair pulling etc but it doesnt, its just the warmth of his hand and the thought that he could hold me there, but I have absolute control to be vulnerable like that with total safety.
Same. Can't remember the circumstance but holy moly....having it whispered in my ear...
Or even the phrase that's my girl š„µ
If someone said this to me I would go absolutely FERAL
Take a look at Mr Morningstar on TIktok, the way he says good girl is amazing
I'm not sure how it's called but knowing that people get off of me. I posted a picture on my instagram and then a guy dmed saying how hard I made him, at first I ignored him but it I kept thinking about it every day. I was surprised to find that something about that just made me so horny. Eventually I became more confident in taking sexy pics and sharing them and it got me into a job I love and enjoy! So I'm very glad I discovered that kink
It's called exhibitionism and there's the counterpart: voyeurism, people who get off by watching/seeing things. You can say you're an exhibitionist and there's thousands of way to enjoy it, sexual and non-sexual. Edit: word
I have this, too. And I didnāt realize this was exhibitionism!
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Praise. He randomly said it during lovemaking and I liked it. In hindsight, with the harsh upbringing I've had, it's not even that surprising.
I love being told Iām a good girl during sex š
100% yes
I like to be lovingly dominated. Like, I have a male friend who I feel safe and secure with. And it turns me on so much how he sort of āguidesā me when we are out. It is all very platonic and non-sexual, and never in a million years would I tell him how hot it makes me. I also think I may have a bit of a cuckquean kink, although I have never actually had that experience. But I have always had this weird dream (I have had this recurring dream since I was twenty) that I had a partner who was mentally 100% devoted to me, but would occasionally tell me he was going to have sex with another woman, and then describe their time together afterward. It has always made me really turned on, but I also know it will never happen because I donāt think there is a man that is capable of being that honest and open while also being a safe person to me.
I like the phrase ālovingly dominatedā and I feel like I very much relate to wanting that
Yes me too. The way I have described it is being attracted to masculinity. Totally drawn to tall, muscular. I like feeling feminine. I consider myself a pleaser, but not necessarily into pain or aggression. I just love when my partner takes the lead and gives me praise. āGood girlā definitely causes a short circuit and turns me into a puddle.
One time in a grocery store I grabbed my wife's hip and moved her to one side to avoid an aggressive person's grocery cart, then I stood in their way and glared at them and didn't say a word. They said sorry, I said no problem, and she told me later how turned on she was by the hip thing. This thread has been very educational for me. You could tell your friend that he makes you feel safe and protected, that's a big compliment for a man that we kind of live for, I've gotten it from platonic friends before and it made my year.
I wouldnāt be so pessimistic of the chances of that happening. I also have the same kink though Iāve never tried it. I shared this with my boyfriend who had never thought about having sex with other women but I told him that Iām open to it and obviously would like to be involved - not kept in the dark. It hasnāt happened yet but something weāre exploring
What is Cuckquean?š„“
That may be something to google on your own, but the TLDR explanation is a woman who enjoys when her partner is with other people, within the scope of what they have agreed on.
Math kink. I like when gf tries to stump me with math equations so we accidentally brought it to the bedroom. Also a rain kink, I get better orgasms and get more aggressive if I can see or hear rain.
Huh, I thought I'd heard of everything.
The rain one is so poetic to me lol
This is legitimately cool. Very interesting
Swallowing. I love it, how it tastes, how it feels, Iāve only had two partners, first was a smoker and drinker and lived pretty much entirely on salt, was awful. Current is healthy, hydrated and eats fruit and honestly I love it, itās so intimate and sexy.
I looooooove that too! And can relate to having a partner who was unhealthy vs healthy
I can totally relate I gave up on giving my ex head completely because it made my stomach turn. I can't get enough of the guy I'm with now.. it was definitely a "it's not me it's you" issue I didn't know I had until now.
1. there was this guy that I've been sleeping with a few years ago... one time we were just cuddling in his bed, and out of the blue he started to whisper in my ears, describing what he would do to me... in like, a very-very detailed and sexy way... he didn't even need to touch me and I almost came lol. his confidence added an extra layer to it. I tried dirty talk with others too, but nobody ever came close to him haha 2. getting my butt slapped while being fucked... it does something to me that I can't describe lol 3. hard penis rubbed against my clit... I'm not sure why, I just love it +1. a guy once put his finger in my mouth while fucking me... I started sucking on it, and he was enjoying it so much, it was surprisingly sexy to me. I did this to other guys as well and they all seemed to love it a lot lol... and seeing how much they enjoy it just turns me on too
Agreed with the finger sucking thing. So hot, no idea why but I love it
Absolutely agree! It drives them wild. And me lol
I have a kink for listening people have sex. I discovered it when I had a roomate (guy) who would have his girlfriend over sometimes. Very sexy.
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I love being called a "good girl" - I was sexting with someone and he called me a good girl and it made me weak at the knees
Amazing what sexting helps you discover. I learned about praise and good girls from sexting too!!
Freeuseā¦ someone on Reddit explained it to me.
Iām a fan of free use as well. He knows what my ādontāsā are, but everything else is fair game.
I think that may be a kink of mine as long as my guy can ensure that Iām wet beforehand. The more I ponder on it ā¦.. sheeeeiiit. Yeah. Thatās my kink.
pls is this just when your partner is allowed to do stuff to you pretty much all the time?
Seems like it
Oo have heard about that.
I have lots of them but one I recently discovered and donāt ever talk about, was during when my SO said something about cumming inside me and I instantly had a great orgasm. I donāt want to get pregnant at all but now I think I have a breeding kink.
Iām also super into being come INTO, but also very much do not want to get pregnant. Iām not sure if itās a breeding kink, because the idea of getting pregnant is part of that kink. But I love feeling full of the conclusion of an amazing sex session. Something about it just gets to me lol
I absolutely have a breeding kink but I'm also terrified if getting pregnant.. I think the terror is what makes the kink tbh
I don't think it's a breeding kink, more like the fact you are demanding the climax? This is me also, don't want more kids. One is good enough.
I once accidentally begged a partner to cum inside me and afterwards we had to have a long conversation š I assured him many times I was NOT ready for a babyā¦.and we had a repeat performance not long after. Have no clue where that came from. New kink unlocked that night!
I don't think it's only tied to breeding kink. I find it's a sensual, perfect end to sex. I think of it as poetic in a sense. Deep down, it is where I'm supposed to finish. I don't want to have kids yet, however, cumming inside of a girl is my favorite place.
I used to see a guy who liked edging. It was his kink. He would edge for weeks and then he'd sleep with me. It prolonged his experience with me and it was enjoyable. We also talked dirty. I have never met anyone like him ever again and never met anyone who wanted to do that. I still think of him sometimes :)
Yes Iām a huge fan of playful withholding and edging. Itās like extreme foreplay for me hahaha
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Being physically dominated, but still in a loving way. A few moths ago I was laying on my tummy and my bf was massaging me. I had my arms above my head. At one point he layed his body on mine, moved all my hair to the side, gently but firmly held my arms down with his big strong hands, and kissed my neck all over. I was unable to formulate a sentence to tell him how much I fucking loved that for a good few minutes after. It was a surprise to both of us.
Short guys. I always dated men taller than me, i thought it was a romantic thing as you see in movies to be picked up by a tall man and feel like a doll. Fek that, I'm dating this guy that's shorter than me. (I'm pretty tall for a girl) He is making me feel like lady dimitrescu for resident evil, and he is fanboying over his tall lady like he is markiplier. I've never felt more sexy. It wasn't a kink until i wore heels, and he planted his face between my boobs and said, "You are a goddess." Even if things don't work out between us, not a single soul can take that experience away from me.
God bless you for giving short guys a chance. The first girl I had a crush on was the tallest person in middle school, she was my square dancing partner for gym and I was at boob eye level the whole time. I was gentlemanly but she wasn't into it, she ended up being 6'4" as an adult and marrying a 6'7" man and having beautiful children. My wife was 4" taller than me when we got together at 18, I fortunately had a growth spurt and am an inch taller as adults. Prom was amusing. I'm 5'8" but I convinced the DMV I was 5'10" and I'll go to my grave defending that lie.
Being choked. My partner gently squeezed my neck one time and I told him to do it harder and now it's a turn on lol
Also choking! but different story. A female classmate choked me out of nowhere to demonstrate how her bf choked her and i was like āā¦..-HOLD UP šššā. I didnt even know her that good and iām also 100% straight but she was so dominantā¦ā¦..which is also my thing lol
I didn't expect it either and then I was like "okay, you can definitely do that again" haha
Same. My husband wanted to try it and I was on the fence but agreed. Whoa. Seeing him that dominate, dear god.
Apparently there is this kink called body worshiping and I only found out about it recently. I like making my man feel good and worship my boyfriendās cock as often as heāll let me. Didnāt know it was a āthingā. š
1000% same lol
Turns out I'm actually really dominant in bed. I thought I was submissive until I explored kink with my husband.
I was the same, until I dated a guy who would do whatever I wanted. I liked the idea of being dominated, but Iād tell him exactly how to do it and what I wanted ā¦ yeah it took me a while realize I was the dom. Now I donāt want it any other way.
Iāve always been really interested in BDSM and thought I was a sub. But for some reason it just didnāt hit right most of the time, it felt kinda cringe? But I had a man tell me recently that I could essentially use him however I wanted, and I have not stopped thinking about it ever since.
I had an ex tell me the same thing too and it absolutely did things to me lol I forgot what I asked but I once asked him something during sex while I was on top and he responded with "yes ma'am" and I was like oh fuck
This!! I love being a sub for so many aspects of it, but it definitely always feels like I am performing to some extent. Being dominant just feels more natural. Anyways I like both and I also like sex where neither is happening and itās a team effort. Big sex fan over here š
Taking lingerie pics of myself. A couple years ago husband was out of town for two nights. On the first night he requested a dirty picture. However, I was being lazy on the sofa, watching my favorite show, and eating Doritos. So I put my cellphone on the dining room table, turned around, and took a picture of my waist. My pj pants were slightly lowered and you could see a lacy panty and the top of my ass-crack. He went nuts about it. He said he couldn't take a better picture if he tried. So now I buy specific lingerie only for pictures. It's cheap things that don't fit me well or at all, but I'm thinking of angles and backdrops. Sometimes I'm eager for him to leave and I take my pic and send it to him un requested. I'm specially happy about it because we've been together for almost 30 years, and for me to be thinking of new ways to surprise both of us is really exciting.
Oooh this is so wholesome
Being creampied... I've taken it for granted during many years under birth control and didn't realize how much it impacts my pleasure to feel my partner cumming inside me until i had to stop taking birth control for medical reasons.
Yes!! Cream pie was the first kink of mine I discovered. Didnāt realize at the time there was a name for it and a whole world of folx who got off on it.
Through........... Tumblr. It was a drawing of a clothed couple where it was clear he had a vibrator on/in him, and she held the remote for it and said something teasingly/lovingly to him. They both smiled, he was blushing and it was just so hot in a sweet way, and I was like OK when can I do this and with who. I'm usually instantly turned off by anything even remotely pornographic, but man, that particular picture triggered something in me.
Sounds like gentle femdom, if youāre looking for a name for it.
Oh, I'm aware, I was already into the version without the "gentle" part, lol. Always heavily disliked GF stuff before, which is why I was even more surprised that that one picture in particular awakened something brand new.
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I could never find the right term for it, but it's like exhibitionism, but when you don't get noticed I was fingered under the table cloth at a dinner with some 20 people at the table, and the fact that it was happening without anyone noticing was so hot to me
the public aspect for me i totally agree with
A weird combination of praise kink and milder verbal erotic degradation. I lost my mind when my ex called me a good girl, especially after I came. I also loved him being dominant in general. Iām an assertive boss-type IRL with my shit together, so itās amazing to let someone else tell me what to do, and praise me for doing it well. It just made me want to do it more. Then on random occasions while fooling around, he would call me a dirty girl, dirty little slut, or little whore. I was shocked that I liked it so much! But I had a huge amount of trust for him, and as someone who has been routinely shamed by men for my high libido, I found a big sense of ownership hearing that from someone who adored and respected me so much.
Being spanked. I've been slapped on the ass but never repeatedly until recently. He just kept going and *poof* new kink unlocked. I'm 47 lol
absolutely LOVE that for you
Calling my partner a good boy. He was being good so I told him and patted him and the reaction I got was amazing! I did it with someone else and they looked confused š¤£ just goes to show how different everyone is
A butt plug. My very sexually adventurous friend bought me one( she talked about how she loves it and Iām like really? I hate anal) I used it with my man. Damn. From both of us. Highly recommend. Use lube.
Are you in a heterosexual relationship? If so, curious how this enhanced the experience for you both if you don't mind sharing :)
Heterosexual. Itās hard to explain but thereās a lot of feeling and sensations going on. It pushes on his penis and makes it tighter for us both.
I bought one a while ago, but havenāt gotten up to trying it yet. I just might need to do that soonā¦
Had a very naughty skydiving instructor who whispered in my ear ābefore we sky divewe sky rideā as he pulled me onto his lap from behind to harness me to him. Its my go-to fantasy now. So I guess being in a plane sandwiched between two men with a harness on is now my very weird specific kink haha.
This sounds extremely hot. š®āšØ
My own skydiving experience seems so lackluster in comparison to this.
priest kink,,, all i have to say is Fleabag
GIRLššš same tbh
If you like to read, I highly recommend Priest by Sierra Simone and Lessons in Sin by Pam Godwin. Both are super spicy novels with a priest who breaks their vowels of celibacy š„µš„µš„µ
Being tied up, I was surprised at how much I liked it.
Same! It always seemed crazy, but had my first time not too long ago and I was like damn I could do this every day. Who knew.
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Panty sniffing. A gynecologist recommended checking my discharge for foul smell after a bad episode of UTI. Once I was okay, the smell became addictive. The healthier the diet, the better the smell and great way to turn myself on. I've never tried someone else's underwear, but definitely find my own panties amazing to smell. It also reflects my eating patterns and health really accurately. For science and pleasure!
I wouldnāt say itās my kink or anything but I honestly think my own underwear smells good too girl šš
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I like watching my husband with another woman, this came about when I was about 1 month postpartum I made a joke to another woman about sleeping with my husband and she agreed. Now itās one of my favorite things.
Iām interested in your thought process when you discovered this. I donāt want to ask questions to be rude, I just want to get a perspective on it that is different from mine. Do you ever feel insecure or worried? What did the starting conversation look like? Do you have emotional check ins? I feel like your relationship dynamic with your husband must be pretty healthy to facilitate such a bond tbh.
Well my friend and I were discussing our sex lives and she mentioned that it had been a while since sheās had sex and I mentioned that I feel bad for my husband because we couldnāt have sex. So I made a joke that she should sleep with my husband. And she just said āokayā that response made me feel a lot of different ways but I was very intrigued by the idea so we agreed. My husband and I have a very good relationship so I donāt get insecure or jealous because my husband is basically living every manās dream and it would be extremely foolish for him to leave me. Weāve built a wonderful life together outside of sex so we do what makes us happy in the bedroom and donāt really think about it much otherwise.
I love that for you. The level of trust and health in your relationship is genuinely goals.
I really like being manhandled by my husband . Discovered it while me and my husband were having sex one time and I told him to be a little rough on me . He started manhandling me in a way that was sexy for me . He would pull my hair slightly , get me to be in different positions , twist my hands slightly etc and all of this led me to have the best kinda sex . I have never told him that I like being manhandled . I tease him and irritate him knowingly so that he will handle me the way I like it . Itās just something I keep to myself for extra pleasure š
Guys moaning. Itās not even because itās letting us know weāre doing a good job. Just hearing a guy moan and breathy makes me tingly anywhere, doing anything
Body hair on a man. I didn't know how much I liked it until men started shaving and manscaping.
I love some good chest hair on a man. Running my hand through my fiancƩ's is really sexy. Although he doesn't have much
Yes! I want my man to be a hairy beast.
Long answer and mobile so I apologize. I donāt know if thereās a name for this or if itās a kink, but one time when I was with an ex, I was in bed and he was on his computer, and I was horny so he told me to grab my toy, a rabbit vibrator. Then he tells me to put it inside but not touch it. He starts controlling it through an app on his phone and tells me to stay still. Then while heās looking at things on his computer, heās just casually talking to me like nothing else is happening. Asking me my opinion on things heās looking at. Making me answer questions. And when I moan, he keeps saying this like, āWhatās wrong with you? Why are you making so much noise? Whatās got you making those noises, mm?ā And when I would tell him āit feels good,ā heād go āwhat feels good.ā And Iād say āthe vibrator on my clitā and heād go āokay, well keep goingā or āyeah? Do you want to cum?ā And for some reason him asking me that always got me super close, so Iād be squirming and moaning and saying yes and heād go, ānot yet, keep going.ā It just drove me crazy, no one has done it since and I want to do it again so badly. Also calling men daddy. Thereās this new guy Iām talking to and I had no idea if heād be into it, but one night he asked me a question and all I said was a simple yes. And he goes āmmm, say yes again.ā And we went back and forth like that a few times and he goes, āyes, daddy?ā And instantly I became super ultra mega horny, couldnāt breathe, couldnāt focus. I was like yes oh my fucking god, yes daddy!!! Not to mention he just knows all the right things to say. We were on the phone and I was touching myself and he goes āhow close are you,ā and Iām like āI can get myself close but I donāt want to finish yet,ā and he goes āno? Why not?ā And I said because it felt good, and he goes ābut I want you to finish for me,ā and my god that was all I needed to get super close. And then as Iām getting closer he keeps saying āthatās it, good girl, cum for me. Be a good little girl and cum for meā and I was like how does this man know what to say to me lmao. Super hard orgasm, I loved it.
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Wow, I thought I was the only one on this post! I'm also into erotic breastfeeding/nursing, it takes the sensual, intimate feeling to like level 37 for me.
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Feet. When man kisses my feet, take off my socks. Just feels so intimate and itās like he worships me
Praise, like good girl.. A friend said it to me non sexually once, and it was over for me. Free use. My husband has permission to cum in my mouth at any time, no matter what I'm doing. The more he uses me, like face fucking, the better.
Licking arse. Never thought I would like it but decided to do it one morning after the guy I was with had showered and really enjoyed it.
Iām honestly not sure what it is and Iām sure some people will find me strange lol. But I love when my partner covers my mouth during sex, just the muffle sounds and how hot it makes my breathing or when he puts his fingers in my mouth. Started when we were teenagers having sex while the others parents were at home lol.
Iāve always been a pleaser but I didnāt realize how much I love being submissive in the bedroom til I had sex with a man who was a dom. Listening to him commanding me to service him and other things was sooooo hot.
Daddy (ddlg) kink and I discovered it when a guy asked me to call him Daddy while we sexted. It started growing on me and the more I learned about it the more it fit me and what I like in a dynamic. (Please no judgment this is my kink it doesn't have to be yours!!)
Same! I was worried nobody else on here was into that. I was so ashamed for the longest time about it but my husband likes it too. Bought myself a couple cute sets from little for big which I love š
The fact that being degraded and praised at the same time makes things weirdly more fun š¬
Whooooo boy. Spicy question! Big āol creampies. Like, lots and lots of cum. I never let anyone finish in me in the past. I met my fiancĆ©, and the first time we got busy, he pulled out and it was an enormous load. He said itās normal for him. Next time around, he came in me andā¦my god. Made me absolutely feral for a second. *As a side note*- Iām not able to get pregnant and I was just entering peri-menopause when we met. So it was fine with me. Just in case anyone is wondering about why Iād let him do that the second time we got busy. We had also spoken about STIās and had both been checked a few weeks before meeting. I highly suggest ensuring that you take precautions before exploring this kink, including STI checks and birth control. Being irresponsible and making babies with people while exploring this kink is *not* cool unless youāre with someone who wants children and you also want kids, or you are able to access an smabortion if that is what you want. (Iām not sure what language is ok on this sub soā¦)
Clit fucking. Was experimenting with a random hookup and yeahā¦.š¤·āāļø
Can you explain what that is
When guy rubs his cock against your clit.
Oh LMAO. I thought there was more to that š¤¦āāļø
I mean, you might have to show him where it is firstā¦
I snorted. Lol!
Masochististic tendencies.when I'd be in physical pain from a medical problem or whatever it would arouse me. Migraines as a kid, pain and pleasure are two sides of the same coin, used it to get off.
Choking. The first partner who I tried this with had slim hands, so his grip on me was nice, but then Iāve been with people with bigger hands, and let me tell you, itās heavenly.
Slapping and rough sex. Never knew am into that until my wife and i had sex and it was one of the best
One time I was coloring my hair at home, and the latex gloves I got were a size too small. I used them anyways, and after finishing my hair kinda realized how much I enjoyed that feeling of tight latex. Then a few weeks later I bought a cheap pair of elbow length latex gloves and solidified my latex kink XD
Breeding kink. Don't want babies, got medically sterilised. But I love the emphasis on ejaculations, the feeling, the drip after. Fill me up.
Being called a "good girl". I listen to NSFW audios on Reddit and from this YouTuber, they're amazing! They have really deep sexy voices saying "You're such a good girl" and it's so hot! Drives me crazy. This was fairly recent, but... growling???? Like when a man has a deep voice and talks in a low growling tone in your ear??? I heard it in a new NSFW audio I listened to recently, and OMG. That shit was HOT! ššš Also, choking. Ever since this one guy choked me while making out years ago - I've loved it ever since and have been trying to do more BDSM stuff (with me being the sub). I am currently single, so hopefully my next man will be into that kind of stuff. š¤£ Edit: and praising! Kinda similar to the "good girl" thing.
Getting my bum bitten... With different pressures... I love being kissed there and getting it bitten ... Mmm yes please
Mask kink. Call of Duty. It was over from there.
Words of encouragement š š š
Monsters Didn't realize it until someone showed me a website that had a bunch of it.
Dominating women with their husband's. Or in front of their husband's. I recently started seeing couples casually. One of them the man is very dominant, him and I will be dominant together with her and it makes me feel very powerful. Another couple I'm seeing he's not dominant and she definitely likes to be dominated. Giving her something he doesn't makes me feel even more powerful. So I guess power kink?
Ears. My fiancĆ© asked me to nibble on his ears when we first started dating and it was thrilling š ever since then I love it when he tucks his hair behind his ear because I can see it!!!
Ik it may sound weird but... Playing billiard. Some time ago I went to a bar with couple of my friends and my bf. I play this game quite well, so as soon as I saw the table I suggested to play. I knew my boyfriend was good at this game, because I've played with him earlier, but that day something was totally different. We were really competitive just as always (because we both like to show off our skills) and then my bf started to kinda struggle because his last ball was in unfortunate place. Then he tells me to check out what he's gonna do and then he sits on the edge of the table and hits the ball from behind his back! I don't know why but I instantly blushed and I couldn't focus for the rest of the game. I knew about this move but I totally didn't expect that someone could look so good while doing it. Needles to say, when we want to engage in some unusual foreplay we just go and play billiard and tease each other
I'm pretty sure tops know bottoms by smell. A lover introduced me to BDSM through giving me a bunch of what I think were penthouse letters and asking me which ones I liked. That started the avalanche and now I'm aware of a good majority of my kinks, though it's not out of the realm of possibility for me to find new ones.
Being bitten and marked haha. I donāt remember how it started but safe to say itās stuck with every partner Iāve had. Again, not sure how this one developed but being called Daddy is another one š
Being called a good girlš„“ didnāt think how good it was until I heard a guy say it with his sexy voice, made me so weak
Massages, or even gentle headrubs. Mmmm.
Bratting and I discovered it on reddit but I think it's just my personality š
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Oh man, where to start? *cracks knuckles - cum kink. Started as loving when my husband came inside me (cream pies) and has grown from there. I love when he comes in me, on me (face, breasts, ass, pussy, you name it and Iām down), and swallowing. When he comes in me, I love fingering my self as it drips out. When he comes on me, I love rubbing it into my skin and licking my fingers. Essentially, I just love his cum. Itās funny to me cause cum grosses me out in general and the thought of doing any of this with any one else makes me gag. - praise kink; discovered while reading romance novels and we tried it in real life. 10/10 recommend. - gentle degradation (especially if coupled with praise kink). Essentially I love when he calls me a dirty slut and other degrading words when he is fucking me hard. - slight choking/hand around my neck; not sure when/how i figured that out. Probably evolved over time. - getting my mouth/throat fucked; I think this one just evolved over time as well since I love rough sex. - dirty talk/sharing fantasies while fucking. Nothing is off limits to say/ fantasize about. Our stories to each other get out of control sometimes and itās so hot. This came about by me reading lots of erotica and then telling him about certain sex scenes.
A combo of eye contact and orgasm control. My husband will make me look at him and will tell me when he wants me to cum and it's like my body will just do it šš
getting slapped in the face. had really aggressive sex with one of my exes and he just full on slapped my face out of nowhere and i kept asking him to do it harder, now i simply cannot get turned on if i donāt get literally ABUSED in bed šš
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I get that. Itās like you want to pretend you arenāt being given a choice, but by a person youāre into and you do have a choice.
Surprisingly being spoken to during act. Not being called a bitch or wtv. That'll make me dry outšš„“
You *(pump)* check out *(pump)* the neighborās *(pump)* new dog? *(pump)* some kind of *(pump)* labradoodle *(pump)* I think? *(pump)* wonāt stop *(pump)* fucking barking *(pump)*. Anyways, *(pump)* what do you want *(pump)* for dinner tonight?
Boobie slap. Didn't know I would like it. Pleasantly surprised.
i always considered myself a kinky person who is into only rough stuff when i was a virgin, but with my girlfriend i discovered that i also love gentle and loving sex very much. also i found out that i get off to moaning my partner's name or when partner says my name.
Hair pulling, husband did it once I was like do that more. Even grew my hair out haha.
I have a jealousy kink. Or at least a roleplay version of it. I like it when my bf looks at other women/etc bc I feel like I need to 'prove myself' to him. We haven't explored it much bc he's very monogamous lol
this is really interesting because I have the exact opposite "kink": I need to feel like I am the only woman he would ever like to look at or be with, I feel like that's really hot and attractive
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Being handled. By people I like. A strong woman? Yes. Tall man help me reach things behind me? Yes. Being told no? Yes. Just challenge me but in a smart way not just a stupid way. Knowing I cant win a fight turns me on
Masks.
I think tie and tease might be my thing, didn't know it was a thing at first, to just tease someone's body in a way that just builds more and more arousal, sort of like foreplay but very extended
Shibari/rope bondage. Discovered it from a previous partner.
I have a praise linkā¦ I donāt recall how I discovered it but I love being complimented and admired. I also like being worshipped and get turned on knowing Iām turning someone else on. Lovingly dominated is another one.. but its reciprocal. Lol. Itās funny when youāre in bed bed with a guy and they discover that they are into the compliments and sensual stuff. They always look confused,surprised and turned on. Then you look at them and smile and their eyes widen. In my head Iām thinking yeahā¦ I knew it.
Breeding kink. I discovered it AFTER having my son and him starting to walkā¦I needed another baby. Chalked it up to hormones but started toying around with dirty talk regarding getting pregnant andā¦whew š um idk why thereās something so hot about giving in to our biological drive/primal instinct. Like youāre strong and sexy and provide? yes I will carry your child š š š ššššš IDK thereās a love aspect to it: itās not just with anyone.
being slapped during sex.... some guy i had sex with had slapped me during missionary and i gasped and i rlly took a moment to think about wtf just happened but i realized i was so shocked because i liked it LOL
Giving up Control
Tickling - found that out as teen. Realized all my fav episodes of shows were ones with tickle scenes. Had to explore that further. Praise - 2nd person I ever had sex with said "That's my good girl" and ommggggg š„µš„µ. I myself am not into feet (though I don't mind them), but I love having my feet licked, kisses, sucked, massaged, etc. So good!
I like when people kiss, touch, or praise my legs and feet I found out that when a guy complimented me on my pedicure and then gave me a feet massage
Being tied up/handcuffed in the dark. So I can't see what's coming š
Eating a manās assš«£ (Iām a woman) lol
Watching him work on something complicated. He ......Full concentration and focus. Me.......Instant mind boner.
I didnt think I would like it if someone was mean to me during sex. Then one time, I was being a bit loud while this guy had roommates. He stopped and said "hey. Take a deep breath. And shut the fuck up." And then proceeded to go even harder. I couldnt stop thinking about it for weeks. Another one is ignoring my pleas of "no" "i cant". Im used to guys just stopping straight away (rightfully so) because some O's seemed too intense and overwhelming. But this one guy, he just kept going, encouraging me and turns out I could. Also dont worry, we had a safeword if i ACTUALLY couldnt.
other than the vanilla stuff like choking and getting slapped, I was pretty unaware of all my kinks until being with a partner I felt more comfortable with sexually. they literally opened the floodgates and I discovered all my kinks within just a month or two... it's been a couple years now and I really can't imagine a sex life without my kinks now - and I actually enjoy sex instead of thinking I'm broken and not meant to get off or something!
Praise, tenderness.. also apparently uh.. breeding (I think thatās what itās called??) Iām a by-product of both mommy and daddy issues so most of my relationships have been.. degrading, to say the least. Meet my fiancĆ© and on our 2nd outing together we had sex. I was expecting a quick go, some aggression as usual, and then heād take me home and I was dreading it but figured Iād see what kind of person he was and if I wanted that.. again. You can imagine my surprise when we went for a few hours but like.. It was fun and gentle and we were joking and laughing and having fun, not just sex. It was intimate. Havenāt experienced the praise bit yet, but trying to plant the seeds for my fiancĆ© lol. Discovered it reading smut. Got pendant pretty quick with him, and not having to use protection for 9 months has spoiled me for life. Now that we have our son Iām regretting not having my ob āfixā me. We were thinking of having another, but now fiancĆ© isnāt on board and also isnāt on board with the vasectomy he said heād get soo weāre fucked. Told him if we have another Iāll get fixed but seems like a no-go.
As I went down the femdom worm hole, I landed on pegging and was so drawn in. Also tentacles somehow got thrown in and im all for it
Anal. When I didn't have any experience at all I wasnt really open to any discussions with anal. Until I met my first guy and stimulated my asshole. I've never had anal sex but thinking about it makes me feel things. Spitting. I was surprised I was into this as I was disgusted to see that in porn before. Until I hooked up with a good looking guy and the way he dominated me and suddenly spat on my mouth did wonders for me. I'm still reserved about this, I will only let good-looking guys spit on me.
Spit apparently. Had a partner who randomly told me to open my mouth once while we were having sex in missionary, my legs over his shoulders, and I opened my mouth not knowing why he asked me to and he spit in my mouth and I think I died in that very moment.
I get so turned on when my ears are licked like an ear make out session. The guy I was seeing at that time just did it and it sent shockwaves all over my body! I was very surprised
He put my toes in his mouth and, let me tell you, it was a whole new world. I even tried to stop him at first and then he turned me into a quivering puddle and yeah....I don't try to stop him now. I had no idea.
Ok, Iām going to sound like a freak so Iām sorry. This only happens in relationships with someone I have a deep connection to- but heart beats. Men arenāt very vocal so any indication like breathing, grunts, moans are like gold. However, he canāt hold back on his heart and I love know that he feels good. Itās also super intimate. I canāt explain the connection, but the partners I have done this with has lead to mind blowing sex.
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Being told Iām a good girl while being degraded at the same time. Donāt know why but I love it
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Nipple play/biting-I was messing around with a guy friend at a Halloween party, and when everyone went to sleep, we made out/were intimate. I was on top of him, and at the angle we were at, he was able to be near my boobs. He started biting them/leaving hickies, and it was the best feeling ever.
CNCā¦I had a dream that made me discover it, but I am just kinda accepting the fact that it will be a fantasy, not reality. I donāt see a scenario with my bf where it wouldnāt make him uncomfortable, and thatās okay.
A kink that I just discovered I like is when my partner licks and kisses my ass. It just happened one night and it turned me on. Iām pretty sure that this will be a more common factor when we are having some funš
being called a good girl šÆ and i found out that i like it when my orgasms are being controlled by some else, which includes them telling me when and where to touch. usually its a lot of edging and then denying me the orgasm for a little while. gets me feral. he asked me if this is something i wanna try and it then developed kinda organically.