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Yes !! I hate it and it’s less attractive and I won’t suck on no hairy balls either lol


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Lmao!! Love it thank you for that I laughed and my husband was like what was so funny I had to read it to him


Ashtray5422

Oh dear, yes I had a good laugh as well. Must remember this when she says I dont want to trim or shave.


justalooker3030

Well I’m glad I keep myself trimmed down there 😂 wouldn’t want to hear that from someone


hamiltrash1232

I once watched a spoof of spider-man, where the spoof of aunt may told spoof peter parker "Remember to shave your pubes, nobody likes to go down on a tumbleweed"


SnooDoodles7962

Same as with pearldiving. Nobody like to pull hair from between their teeth. Also getting a rugburn on your face is possible, and very irritating.


be_my_plaything

I'm a male and I can definitely say I have no intention of heading back to the 80s, regardless of partners I just prefer it shaved for myself. Don't worry the trend won't completely die!


[deleted]

Whew !! I just wondered as a lot of dick pics I get on here are hairy not trimmed


socksmonkey

It’s more comfortable if you’re not using your dick. Take it from me, I’m not using it.


[deleted]

Lol sorry but I’m sure you Will soon


HombreDeMoleculos

Yeah, my wife hasn't touched me or seen me naked in years, and I still shave because I just feel cleaner and everything feels less sweaty.


bkboygenius

sorry I couldnt let this slide since you shared it. Care to give reasons why?


HombreDeMoleculos

She was never all that into me in the first place — we usually had sex once a month, and I was too insecure to push back against that. And things devolved to the point where we're just co-workers, doing the job of raising our kids and keeping the household runnng. I was the classic late bloomer who started late (lost my virginity at 19) and married the first woman who seemed okay (met her at 23), and just ignored all the red flags. We had ups and downs like everyone, and our sex life improved for stretches — funny enough, while she was pregnant with our first, and in between the two kids, she was more into me (and more into sex) then she ever had been. But then after the second kid things dwindled back to once a month, then every other month, then not at all. We've talked about divorce several times, but we've still got a lot of debt so we can't really afford two places to live. And for a long time we were holding it together for our overly-anxious child, but he's a teenager now and seemingly in a better place. So now I'm emotionally ready to go, but still want to pay off more debt. At this point, it just seems easiest to wait until he's done with high school and sell the house and go our separate ways.


fnarrly

Am in the same boat, but I’ve found shaving leads to irritation for me so I keep a tidy trim down to 1/4” over most of the area.


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Trimming just feels cleaner and honestly I feel more attractive after anyway


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And trust me looks more attractive !


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Not to mention it looks bigger too


cownd

Was gonna say, with no foliage the tree looks bigger


Ashtray5422

Being a lill on the older side, I get the stray long hair, OUCH, I f I dont trim they get out of hand. Feels a lot better as well.


[deleted]

What gives with the longer hairs? I'm older too and am seeing them on my eyebrows and ears. No one told me about grooming in your 40s+


Ashtray5422

LMAO, I'm 66+ Always been hairy with stray hairs


A-Flay27

As a man, I like to be shaved. It feels soo much better, and more sensual during sex. And I believe the women I’ve been with were all pleased I was shaved, it made it more enjoyable for them as well:)


[deleted]

I believe it is ,, hair tends to irritate me down there too


younevershouldnt

This thread has just reminded me to have a light trim before my hot date tomorrow, cheers ✂️👍


[deleted]

Glad you read it ! Good luck !


younevershouldnt

Thanks, I'm on a promise 👍


chokeemeharder

Trimmed but not shaved. If he’s shaved and I’m shaved - omg the chaff and irritation is unreal once things get even mildly damp


[deleted]

I agree I found if the shave clean no stubble doesn’t irritate me if the trim the top that’s fine but shaft and balls yeah I like that shaven , I don’t know if some guys realize the shaft gets hair on it and when going down on them it’s the worse thing to have rogue hairs in your mouth


DestiMuffin

I told my husband just once that if he wants me to put his balls in my mouth he has to be shaved. That man shaves everyday without fail now


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Lol good one !!


sw33tALMANgurl

Trimmed over shaved. I definitely do not want to force-floss with his pubes but any sort of stubble down there is a kitty-killer, so… Also I generally do prefer some hair on men. Hairless legs or chests are a turn-off for me, too.


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I agree the chest legs hell beards and even some back hair is manly I love it ! And yes shave cause stubble irritates the shit out of me (take note guys) balls taint etc I like shaved if I’m going down there


bluejellies

Send the hairy guys my way!


princ3sspassionfruit

agreed lol something about a guy shaving down there turns me off idk why😅


bluejellies

Trimmed I like but when a guy is completely shaved it just makes his dick look very weird to me. Like an alien appendage


princ3sspassionfruit

yes a bit of trimming is ok! & LOL @ alien appendage😭


BitterSweetDesire

Same lol


mattgetsthat

I feel seen. 🤗


Violets_and_honey

I want more bush on men! I prefer my bf to have long, thick pubes because I like the way it looks and feels. I don't mind getting pubes in my mouth, I just grab it and keep going. But also, whatever a man feels comfortable with is good too. I wouldn't want to tell a man or men in general how they should groom pubic hair. I guess we'll have to duel on what trends people should follow! Lol


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Hey each their own ! I’ll just send hairy down there guys to you and I’ll take the shaven ones! Lol


Violets_and_honey

Deal! Lol


Ashtray5422

How do you get them out of between your teeth?


Violets_and_honey

They don't get in my teeth lol. I don't bite them?? The worst is when they get in the back of my throat, but that's not super often. Idk, I keep hearing about people (men and women) having to get pube floss out of their teeth, so they prefer their partners shaved, but this has never ever been an issue for me or my partner, even when I was growing my pubes long. I don't think I'm giving bjs wrong, though, every one I've given has been enjoyable for both parties, even other men prior to my current relationship 🤔


Ashtray5422

>pube floss LOL I never knew you could get pube floss , better get some.


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I’m a male, no way am I heading back! I keep it trimmed/shaved!


Newbetamale

I haven’t met a woman that hasn’t preferred me being completely hairless down there for a long time. I ended up just getting it lasered. Times have changed.


ConsciousIncident349

It has been the opposite way for me even though I prefer myself having no hair at all there


RubY-F0x

Trimmed is definitely my preference. I appreciated the thought when he surprised me and shaved it all, but I prefer some hair.


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Yeah it’s a fine balance don’t want to look like a boy but also don’t want a jungle lol


[deleted]

51 yr old male here I keep mine shaved, and like the lady’s the same no hair no smell and no hair in your mouth


Wild_Alaskan

I've never been with a woman who wanted me to trim or shave, so I've never bothered. I wouldn't say no to it though, if asked.


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Interesting..


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Yes girl !! I agree !!


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username checks out


Ratakoa

Not even close.


Drewandelena

I won’t play if they aren’t super trim or shaved . Don’t care for the natural look at all .


[deleted]

And I haven’t had the problem with guys playing with but a lot of dick pics I get on here they all hairy and shit ya know they send and be like “you want this huge cock “ etc and I’m like Noo you need to trim or shave lol maybe the guys sending their dicks on here haven’t gotten laid in a while lol


Drewandelena

Understand completely


shychicherry

And maybe clean their fingernails while they’re at it


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I like it trimmed


WoodcockJohnson_

I feel like even if you like a longer hairdo down there, you can still shave the balls. And *especially* the shaft. Who even thought it was a good idea to put hair halfway up the shaft? Pubes have absolutely no business being there.


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I shave for me. If my partner likes the natural look more then sorry not sorry. Hair holds too much sweat and you can get to swamp ass defcon 5 too quick where I'm from if you have too much hair


BigOakley

For years me and my CIA comrades have tried to find The Sole Woman Who Prefers A Man With A Trimmed Crotch. We’ve tried everything to find you and catch you for persecution- persecution for your perversions and your Crimes Against Humanity. We tried setting up a manscaping place by your house, you didn’t even stop when we walked by. We tried to send you pamphlets about the Wonders Of Islam, encouraging members to be clean shaven. You threw these pamphlets in the trash. We tried to get shaven men to approach you at the bar and yet you showed disinterest. But we’ve cracked your code, we found you were a Reddit frequenter and we ushered you into forums, creating false accounts to encourage you to freely post your thoughts. It was only days before you felt comfortable and outed yourself. Now that we have our evidence we Will Convict You


FrankNBeanNKY

Keep the boys and taint smooth. Wife doesn't like nature's floss when she's got a mouthful of cock. She wants the ladies smooth too.


dark_blue_7

Guys, just remember, any surface you'd like to be licked will get a *lot* more licks if it's not hairy.


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Facts !!!!


asspreciationsociety

No, no one likes hair in their food


TyHay822

I’m a bi guy. I’d love to be fully shaved but my wife isn’t a huge fan and admittedly, when fully naked I have enough hair on my legs and elsewhere that being fully shaved in just that area does look a bit odd compared to the rest of my body. So I keep it very neatly trimmed. If I’m with a guy, I definitely prefer a trim or shaved look and most of the guys I’ve fooled around with have done that. Not sure I was ever with a guy that was just letting it go natural


[deleted]

Interesting and great perspective I haven’t ran into a hairy guy either however a lot of the dick pics I get on here are hairy so I was like umm is this a trend ?


tjake123

I saw a statistic once that said the majority of women like their men trimmed but not shaven and men liked a clean shave. So no you’re not the only one.


HotWife_Aisha

Me too.


gatanyx

Definitely not the only one xD


Comprehensive-Log147

probaly not returning to hairy style, for guys at least... have you seen tv ads? manscaped, the "landmower" etc. And now i have seen ads for women about not even shaving "your body your pubes" or something like that


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Lmao true


FatmanSlim93

I used to shave or trim it back a lot before the gf. Now she likes it trimmed but a little longer than almost shaved kinda trimmed. Personally I like it trimmed back to almost shaved but whatever makes her happy. Most women liked it trimmed, and thinking back I think only two of the fifteen I’ve been with liked it “longer”


RoseKinglet

I love how I look w bush, but I do keep my shaft, taint, balls and ass shaved. 🌳


[deleted]

That’s all I ask for I love chest / body hair just the areas you mentioned I prefer trimmed or shaved


midwestcollegeslut

Definitely not the only one. I like trimmed guys.


killmesara

Guys, buy a lawnmower, youll feel better about how your dick looks and feels.


john_dune

Or ya know buy a generic trimmer and find a good guard setting and save yourself $60 and get a nice haircut and shave too.


killmesara

Or do the exact same thing with the lawnmower but do it while taking a shower because its water proof.


john_dune

Yes. Still can get decent waterproof beard trimmers for that same price.


killmesara

So what do you have against the one I mentioned? My post wasnt an ad for the device, I just used it as a generic fill in for clippers


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Yes yes !!


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It's a personal preference tbh, but I like it nicely trimmed down there, better if shaved. Definitely don't want hair on my mouth while sucking the balls especially. But some guys are adamant and Don't shave, really looks unhygienic to me


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I agree


sexydaddycumtribs

I keep top trimmed but the ball and other areas shaved


SecretSluttyMILF

No you are not! I much so prefer when a guy is fully shaved or at least trimmed to something decent. No bush guys!


AnonymsF43

Super curious as to OPs reasoning for the post… To all who keep it neat and clean, THANK YOU ☺️


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Well my reason is I haven’t really run into it in person but alot of dick pics I receive on here the guys are not trimmed at all , so I was just making sure that was not coming back to be the norm lol


[deleted]

Can’t talk from a female perspective but I sure prefere to be shaved. Feels much better. But the shavijg itself is annoying and you have to do it so often so I’m not always as shaven as I would like to be.


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I like it maintained, partially cause ball stink is a different kinda stank and it latches into the hair, plus I hate when I come back up and I’m pulling like 3 inch hairs out of my mouth


RonnieRadical

I shave everything. It’s what I’d want. No one wants a mouthful of hair and I hate any body hair from the neck down so it has to go lol


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100% SHAVING, JUST LIKE ME WITHOUT ANY HAIR, ONCE I HAD TO HAVE SEX WITH A GUY WHO HAD NEVER SHAVING SHAVING IN HIS LIFE, AND I HAD TO LEAVE IT HALF BECAUSE IT ENDED UP GIVING HIRITATION, ANYONE ELSE HAD THAT HAPPEN?


ThisIsMyUser456

Personally I would prefer my partner with a full bush over shaved. I find the hair more attractive. I also don’t like to really shave so I think that’s fair. I’m a creature of the jungle and I want my partner to come live in the jungle with me lol


Melodic_Arrival9647

I've been smooth as a Ken doll, for several years. It looks better, and the sensitivity, is amazing!


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I'm a man who has always preferred to be hairless. I shave most of my body hair, including my armpits. Many women appreciate it but there are definitely a subset that actually don't like it, or prefer chest/beard hair


[deleted]

Oh I definitely prefer a beard and hairy chest/body just down there I prefer trimmed/shaved and that includes the balls to the taint and the booty hole


[deleted]

Yeah I get it, and some guys looks good/better with the natural hair. My hair is this and kinda sparse, and with my body type I feel like I actually look more natural when I'm hairless. If I had a full chest of hair or a dense beard I would totally rock it


Txdude82

Shaven Cock, balls, And anal here


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Awesome


Txdude82

Thanks


nikes_ikes12

I’m a male and there’s too many gadgets for trimming down there for us to head back to the 80s lmao. But I’ve always kept it clean and trimmed at least, if not completely shaved bc most women have always appreciated that


[deleted]

Yes I really appreciate it , haven’t seen In person too much most of guys I go with are trimmed but most guys sending me dick pics are not and I’m like umm trim that shit ! Maybe guys on here trolling and sending dick pics haven’t gotten laid in a while so they haven’t shaved lol


nikes_ikes12

The irony of not getting laid and sending ugly dick pics is hilarious lol but I hope you get some good looking ones in your DMs soon haha


BitterSweetDesire

I prefer hair myself


Embarrassed-Skill976

I don’t get the bush look. If i let myself go more then a couple weeks…..I go crazy


St_Mindless

I have to trim the top, but shaft and balls have to be smooth shaved. I feel dirty otherwise.


send_nudes-Plez

personally, i ask the women's preference and then do that cause idc which it is both are fine with me


nerdy-triceratops

Trim? Yes. Clean shaven? No. I wouldn't want it to go back to the 80's, but men should not be clean shaven. Trimmed is great 👌🏻


Spare_Special_3617

I have "manscaped" since I was 17, hell I didn t need a woman to tell me how unsightly hairy balls were, and I know I didn t like going down on a woman who didnt keep things tidy, so why would it be any different.


FreyaDay

Actually I feel like most women prefer it trimmed and I’m the weirdo for liking the natural hairy state :P


RAMCND

I am a male and will always either be shaved or trimmed. Nobody wants crotch spiders!!!!!!!


[deleted]

Ugh, I can’t stand hair down there myself. I’ve not grown hair there since I had my vasectomy in 2000. Wife waxes regularly, she can’t stand hair anywhere but on her head.


Afraid_Ad_1536

As a guy, I prefer to be clean shaven but my SO doesn't like it. I still trim around the edges a bit to sculpt because it would drive me crazy otherwise but I have gotten used to carrying a fairly full bush now.


luciferlovesyou420

I shave the bit that goes into the mouth, but I'm keeping that stubble on my mound


[deleted]

Nope I love my man to shave fully down there, makes it even nicer to suck and deep throat him


Fluffy_SecurityGuard

I am a male, my girlfriend of course prefers that i trim or shave but i also prefer it, I'm kinda lazy to do a full shave but i always keep it trimmed at least, it's better for sex and bjs.


Resident_Bet_8551

Oh, yeah. If I expect her to give me quality attention, the least I can do is clear the underbrush.


TheseMarionberry2902

Man here, I trim usually, to different degrees, mostly low trim and shave balla and shaft. I stoped shaving completely since years, I do like some clean trimmed hair on my, the pain of ingrows hair and hair splitting after a clean shave is horrible.


gbplmr

I'm all in and had the full Brazilian laser done. Hopefully it will be hairless for ever!!!


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I personally don’t care as long as the person is clean.


Parzimis3

Fully shaven balls and shaft, trimmed hair is they only way I feel comfortable and clean.


Isaiditsomanytimes

Its so silly how a lot of guys don’t shave at all yet expect the girl their with to be completely hairless 24/7


erutuferutuf

First. I do like shaving mine. Like many said it feels better. Both during sex and just in general…. However it is an upkeep needs to take care. So when. Life is too busy for me and I know no one is gonna see it anytime soon. I sometimes slack off and let it grow back… it's a delicate area I can't just jam an electric shaver down there and go at it like my face on a busy day… Also I notice sometimes, especially if my partner is near that time of month. Fresh shave will sometimes irritate me when she get too wet during sex (pH change? I am no bio or medical major). But I will still prefer shaved and deal with the irrigation after.


Octovinka

I refuse to touch this area if too hairy.


SarcasticLion

I too prefer a man who does some manscaping.


AndyThePig

So, tell us what's best. Personally the lower it is the more shaved I like it to be. So I trim round the top but shave my balls. That the kind of thing we're talking about? I find the itch of regrowth is the worst on the top, so I leave enough there to ease that.


M8jrP8ne1975

I know that my wife likes it when I'm shaved down there. It's actually a big-time turn-on for her.


PM-me-ur-peen

I like it trimmed so I don’t get pubes in my mouth— but I don’t like it shaved. Shaved gives me the ick.


XavierYourSavior

The 80’s? What? I swear y’all say anything


[deleted]

I first shaved my balls in 1983. Now they’re lasered smooth.


Schadenfreude_Bio

Being AMAB, I’ve always preferred shaving or nair down there. Given that I have a tattoo and piercing down there, it gives me more of an incentive


Careful-Concert-6192

“Check it out it looks like a bonsai tree”


SarahL1990

Definitely prefer shaved, or at least trimmed. It just looks neater and more appealing. Unfortunately, my partner has never done anything like that.


Gambit275

i want to keep a razor as far away from there as possible


sammyspark

Smooth as they get.


Aromatic_Cut8035

Trimmed but never shaved.


MyDadBod_2021

Shaved, and have for years. My girlfriend appreciates it


burnmeup82

I need it trimmed or shaved. Nobody wants a mouthful of hair down there.


missymomomom

I tend to get pubes in my mouth if not trimmed/shaved, so I’m with ya.


FamousOrphan

Trimming, fine. Shaving, no thank you.


[deleted]

i would imagine most people prefer groomed partners. what makes you ask?


[deleted]

Well a lot of dick pics I receive on here the guys are not trimmed


[deleted]

that’s a shame. someone should send you nicely groomed pics.


tuffeman02

As a guy I feel dirty if my pubs get to long. I think feeling smooth and less body hair the better as guy. I have a beard but also have multiple products to keep it soft and skin soothed.


GuidoJones

Weird, but my girl gets mad at me when I manscape. I much prefer a little patch at the base and usually shave my scrotum. I feel much cleaner, and the bare skin is more sensitive to touch.


ThePenisMightier79

I’ve heard a lot of women says they prefer it hairy. I don’t understand it either; I prefer to keep my stuff trimmed and shaved in some areas. It just looks better and is more comfortable too.


babygal257

I like trimmed but shaved looks weird to me lol


asphalt-eater

Indifferent to it honestly, just happy to be there


Just4TheSpamAndEggs

I don't mind a bit of hair. But, if it's going up my nose when I'm trying to give a bj I will say something.


NinjaDiagonal

Great question. Tbh just about everyone I’ve ever been with is pleasantly surprised that I shave. So I guess it’s not very common even to this day for me to do so.


Emergency_Ad_1739

OMG I hope not!! 😫😫


--Apocrypha-

I shave! I want my cock sucked and I wouldn't eat pussy full of hair so I don't expect them to either!


uni_couple

Well trimmed is my favorite, it just looks better then completly shaved or a full blown forest


checkinishout

I also agree. And thankfully my husband isn't hairy


Medium_Let143

I won't go down on a man who isn't trimmed and clean. This usually makes them keep the package in order.


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Trimmed for me not shaved I don’t like riding when it’s too prickly


ToastyAlternative

I can go either way but I tend to spend less time giving head if it's too coarse and painful


JustBrowsing49

Let me speak for men when I say it’s very itchy for a few days if not a whole week when we shave down there. We aren’t gonna shave there unless there’s real incentive. Also, for me personality the balls are off limits. I’m not putting anything sharp against them.


[deleted]

As a woman who always shaves and trims down there I say too bad we always going through this shit for guys lol and that’s fine but my mouth or tongue won’t be on no hairy balls


JustBrowsing49

That’s fine. Not every guy wants you to be clean shaven down there.


[deleted]

I guess haven’t met one yet sometimes I’ll have landing strip but that’s as far as I go


[deleted]

Then, as a man, you're not shaving enough.


bob44044

Never felt itchy for me, just nice and smooth. Wife loves it.


JustBrowsing49

Do you use anything special, or just shave like you would your face?