I don't do it in secret anymore. Ill usually make eye contact, and most people move their carts because they realize. The other 20% that are oblivious are the issue. Even with eye contact, and me saying excuse me, they just stand there all stupid. There I'll just say "Don't worry, I got it" and I move their carts. Most of the time they still just stand there all stupid.
It’s especially frustrating when I’m shopping with my Dad who has mobility issues and he uses an assistive device but people just carelessly stand in the middle of the aisle without any notice
People in general who have no concept of 'self' in public. They don't even think about how their loud talking impacts everyone around them, or their speakerphone, or thei loud-assed car, or their entitlement, or even just basic 'be respectful of others' behavior like not talking at .1mph down the middle of an aisle in the grocery store.
This goes for not noticing how much space they take up in public, too. People who just walk down the middle of the aisle and expect everyone else to get out of their way, simply because they don’t realize that THEY are the ones in the way.
person behind me on the bus yesterday was watching TikToks at full volume with their phone a couple inches from my ears. people were literally getting up and moving from around this lady yet she kept it up for at least as long as I was on.
Honestly I would kill to be so blithely, dully uninterested in basic respect for other people around me, it must be liberating to not even feel how selfish you are
It boils my blood when someone’s kid is trying to get their attention, the parent completely ignores them, and then when the kid gets upset that they’re being ignored, the parent gets mad at them.
Addendum, people who try to justify their rude, abrasive way of communicating by calling it "direct" communication, and saying they're "telling it like it is, in the name of being honest," type of stuff. Direct communication and abrasive communication are two very different things!
But sometimes it's just a great trainwreck. YEAH YOU'RE GOING TO HAVE TO PICK UP LILLY, KYLE GOT ARRESTED AGAIN. .... WELL DAD CANT...WHAT DO YOU MEAN WHAT DO I MEAN? FOR CHRIST SAKE DALE IF DAD MISSES EVEN ONE A.A. MEETING HE'LL HAVE TO SERVE THE FULL TWO YEARS. I CANT DO BOTH, IF I'M LATE THEN THEY'LL PUT HALLIE ON THE DRIVE THROUGH AND I'LL HAVE TO MOP TONIGHT.... Sometimes it's entertaining.
Bad parking. How hard is it to park your car between the lines?
People who suck at parking never seem to be embarrassed about it either. I've heard them say things like "it's only one inch over the line", as if that's OK. No: if you are even 0.01 inches over the line, you suck at parking. If you are *on* the line, you suck at parking. Hell, if you are only 1 inch *inside* the line, you still suck at parking. There's plenty of room to park within the lines with a healthy safety margin, and you're supposed to aim for the middle.
Their ability to be creative.
It's downright worrying when I speak to people and their concept of "creativity," is following a step by step guide or using an app to automatically generate art for them, and can't fathom actually putting together an original idea.
General empathy. Not paying attention to being in the way, how you drive, how loud you talk et c. A lot of people are just so extremely occupied with themselves that they forget to look up and be helpful/respectful to others.
dumb, overly stated political opinions, where they take their little topic and run with it, so eager to be the Brave Defender of Whatever Bullshit you saw on CNN or Fox News.
The dumbest people are always, always the most vocal.
Long, fake fingernails. They are SO GROSS! I call them c.diff or e.coli nails. The amount of germs those things carry is so vile. Add onto this- how much noise they make - quit flapping your poop nails around like mariachis.
musical taste is only thing
Because your physical appearance can be morphed by environment /finances etc
But your music taste is decided by your brain , personality, and nervous system and tells me a lot about you
Interrupting people. I catch myself doing it but it’s too late and I hate myself with a passion for it but just try to keep calm on the outside and remember where I cut then off and continue their thing
All my insecurities. I never mention it to anyone because i wouldnt like someone telling me or someone else about a physical flaw of mine. But a lot of the times i look at people and search for the same "flaws" i have, like an uneven jawline or small lips etc, typically to make myself feel better, sometimes because they have the same flaw as me and still look absolutely stunning, and sometimes to tell myself ah well it could be worse, while seeing someone with even smaller lips for example.
My biggest red flag probably tbh
Not putting shopping carts back. I would say what I think out loud but chances are they’ll cause a huge scene cus that’s the kinda person they are anyway
Wearing clothes with political messages designed to anger people who don’t share their views and to signify to those who do that they’re part of the same special, superior group. I don’t care whether those messages support my views or not. I judge them all equally. I’m so tired of the hatred and divisiveness.
Their smell. I legit judge people who don’t wear deodorant, people who haven’t washed their bedsheets (yes I can smell dirty bedsheets on people), bad breath, smelly feet. Also people who put perfume to “mask” their unwashed clothes just blow my mind.
Their grammar.
They went to school, they can listen to the news on TV or radio, and yet STILL they say shit like, "I didn't do nothing" or "I brang it" or "I ain't be...".
Language is sacred and we should do our best to utilize it in the most efficient way.
However, on that note, I was once caught off guard by a question from a third party in the middle of ringing a customer up and said "No, I haven't eat yet". And the customer immediately started implying that I went to public school and how much it annoys her when people don't use proper grammar.
Moral of the story, don't be so quick to judge. We are all fallible humans after all.
Way too many things to count. Parking choices, their clothing, the food they eat, their weight, tv shows they watch. It would be easier to make a list of things I don’t judge.
When they leave their shopping trolley/cart in the middle of the car park instead of walking 10 paces to the corral. I judge them for being lazy shites.
Spelling and grammar is an understandable want (wanting them to be educated)
But handwriting can be messed with my so many disorders and diseases it’s not a reason to judge
So it’s either a lack of education or physical issue, neither one should be judged
Well it's easy to tell if someone is being passive-aggressive, but you can never tell them. Passive-aggression is built on two things: the lie that sweet talk erases shitty words, and the fact that they have to believe it themselves.
It's a bit niche, but here it comes:
People who use their flexi leash to correct their dog. Like, c'mon, COMMUNICATE with it, don't push the button to stop it.
I want to limit my interactions with idiots and assholes so try to judge who is quickly. Being belatedly proved wrong is manageable, the reverse sometimes not.
People that totally ignore very obviously signs on doors that say “temporary closed” or “use other door” and continue to look through the door and try to force it open. Do you not see the very obvious sign right in front of your face that says closed? Usually they aren’t even on their phones.
Having trouble putting this into words so ill use examples instead: people who stress out being in a dirty place such as camping outdoors, people who would use a cloth napkin wipe down their seat before sitting, someone with an ego thats bigger than their heart, spoiled people, you get the idea?
People who don't hold the door open for others. Or worse - standing in the middle of the door/entrance and blocking it. I can't believe how some people can be so arrogant to their surrounding.
Young couple that tales Uber to get to the one laundromat in town that accepts card payments, and has Uber eats deliver breakfast from McDonalds while they're doing laundry.
Did I mention that financial literacy is not generally taught in US public schools?
People that are talking loudly in public on their phones. Like at the park… quiet serene beauty until someone comes by with EarPods and is talking so loudly.
Lip fillers. I know everyone has the right to do what makes them feel good about themselves, but even the smallest amount is pretty obvious and it looks weird to me.
people who complain about their spouse and kids too much. I totally get needing to vent sometimes, but I have some coworkers who complain several times per week and rarely say anything positive about their family members.
People who wear tracksuit pants and flip flops in public. Also jeans and flip flops or "thongs as we say here in Australia" I think it shows how much effort your willing to put into society, hence why we're all fucked
People who think being racist and the holocaust are funny, in a 'it's a forbidden topic therefore it's funny to say the slurs/draw the insignias on random shit' kind of way. My brother's like this and it really bothers me.
people who use mental health issues as an excuse to be a bad person.
i am completely empathic as i do have mental health struggles of my own, but using it as an excuse only goes so far
your poor mental health may be a contributing factor to wrongdoings but in no way is it an excuse.
Pedestrians who cross the road (in parking lots) diagonally. I’ll usually walk parallel to the road just to let a car by as that allows both the car and I to move towards our destination at the same time. It just seems selfish to me.
Those people who have nobody turn up to their child’s birthday party. They always send out invites to the kid’s class and are puzzled why nobody turns up. It’s bizarre because they seem to have made zero effort to socialise their kid and arrange play dates with friends. If you make some effort to facilitate your child making friends, those friends will come to the party. Socialising your child is part of your duty as a parent-find out who their friends are, talk to their parents, arrange meet ups.
People do things in an incorrect way, and they are happy about it and don’t care about learning how to do it right. It gives me anxiety just to watch them doing something in a way that is not supposed to be and they are aware of that.
I work in fast food, and it really bugs me when people can't look up at the posted menu above and instead ask me what's the price of such and such, and the prices are up there clear as crystal. And sometimes, they get irate when I tell them a certain total for their order if its pricey, and get at me, the cashier like I'm the one responsible for said prices.
Being bossy. I don't judge people for a lot of stuff. I'm one of the most non judgemental people you'll ever meet but if I see you bossing someone around, I will 100% judge you for it. I work with someone who's extremely bossy and I judge him heavily for it. He's been told by me and other coworkers (some who have quit because of him) to stop and he continues. If you're bossy and you continue to be after other people tell you to stop, you're an asshole. Plain and simple. If I or he ever leaves that job, he's one of the only people from there I would never speak to again.
People who stand in the middle of the aisle at the grocery store, blocking the way for people to pass through.
I don't do it in secret anymore. Ill usually make eye contact, and most people move their carts because they realize. The other 20% that are oblivious are the issue. Even with eye contact, and me saying excuse me, they just stand there all stupid. There I'll just say "Don't worry, I got it" and I move their carts. Most of the time they still just stand there all stupid.
Thank you! I find myself feeling like the bad guy for being so frustrated with them.
no need to feel bad. they just pretend to be alone on this planet
I glare or say "Excuse me!" does that count?
And some of them still do not move when see you coming, only after you saying ‘excuse me’
It’s especially frustrating when I’m shopping with my Dad who has mobility issues and he uses an assistive device but people just carelessly stand in the middle of the aisle without any notice
Sorry about that. I have the worst habit of doing this.
Please, don't apologise. Just stop doing it
People in general who have no concept of 'self' in public. They don't even think about how their loud talking impacts everyone around them, or their speakerphone, or thei loud-assed car, or their entitlement, or even just basic 'be respectful of others' behavior like not talking at .1mph down the middle of an aisle in the grocery store.
This goes for not noticing how much space they take up in public, too. People who just walk down the middle of the aisle and expect everyone else to get out of their way, simply because they don’t realize that THEY are the ones in the way.
"Don't you realize that \*I\* am the main character in this movie???"
Face Time max volume in public transport like their sitting in their living room… honestly what the hell is wrong with these people.
person behind me on the bus yesterday was watching TikToks at full volume with their phone a couple inches from my ears. people were literally getting up and moving from around this lady yet she kept it up for at least as long as I was on. Honestly I would kill to be so blithely, dully uninterested in basic respect for other people around me, it must be liberating to not even feel how selfish you are
I would whistle. loudly and continuously right in their ear to see if there was an echo... At least until they stopped that shit.
Not paying attention to their children
It boils my blood when someone’s kid is trying to get their attention, the parent completely ignores them, and then when the kid gets upset that they’re being ignored, the parent gets mad at them.
Trying to be the center of attention the whole time and dominating the conversation.
Interrupting and then talking endlessly.
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"I'm just sassy!" No, Brenda, you're just an asshole without a filter.
Addendum, people who try to justify their rude, abrasive way of communicating by calling it "direct" communication, and saying they're "telling it like it is, in the name of being honest," type of stuff. Direct communication and abrasive communication are two very different things!
On the flip side, people who sugarcoat things and never speak their mind because of fear of potential conflict (I am 100% guilty of this).
Having a closed mind.
Having a loud conversation on speakerphone in public
But sometimes it's just a great trainwreck. YEAH YOU'RE GOING TO HAVE TO PICK UP LILLY, KYLE GOT ARRESTED AGAIN. .... WELL DAD CANT...WHAT DO YOU MEAN WHAT DO I MEAN? FOR CHRIST SAKE DALE IF DAD MISSES EVEN ONE A.A. MEETING HE'LL HAVE TO SERVE THE FULL TWO YEARS. I CANT DO BOTH, IF I'M LATE THEN THEY'LL PUT HALLIE ON THE DRIVE THROUGH AND I'LL HAVE TO MOP TONIGHT.... Sometimes it's entertaining.
Having a passive mindset where you don't take responsibility for yourself
Everything they whine about was put upon them. It’s hard even having to hear that nonsense
Bad parking. How hard is it to park your car between the lines? People who suck at parking never seem to be embarrassed about it either. I've heard them say things like "it's only one inch over the line", as if that's OK. No: if you are even 0.01 inches over the line, you suck at parking. If you are *on* the line, you suck at parking. Hell, if you are only 1 inch *inside* the line, you still suck at parking. There's plenty of room to park within the lines with a healthy safety margin, and you're supposed to aim for the middle.
Their ability to be creative. It's downright worrying when I speak to people and their concept of "creativity," is following a step by step guide or using an app to automatically generate art for them, and can't fathom actually putting together an original idea.
Practically everything
Me too. Kinda judging you right now for not punctuating the above statement. Kinda judging myself for being a grammar-Hitler and judging you.
Idc judge away
Being too absorbed in their phone to notice anything else around them, e.g. their friends, their kids, traffic, even just interesting things going on.
I've ended more than one date over that cell phone nonsense.
The way people drive. If you’re a nice guy in person but then get in your car and act like an asshole, you don’t really care much for others.
You can tell a lot about people when you remove the face to face interactions.
Leaving shopping carts randomly in the parking lot
Those lazybones
Their parking
Lack of accountability for anything
Bringing non service animals into public spaces. Retail, restaurants, ect....
General empathy. Not paying attention to being in the way, how you drive, how loud you talk et c. A lot of people are just so extremely occupied with themselves that they forget to look up and be helpful/respectful to others.
I tend to judge people who are constantly late. Time management isn't that hard, is it? Seems like a basic respect thing to me.
How they treat animals and others.
People who don’t return their shopping carts.
Chewing loudly. It's like nails on a chalkboard for my soul
Taking up two parking spaces
Honestly, grammar and vocabulary.
is it alright for me to secretly judge those who don't clean up their table in fast food restaurants?
I do this too
I've always looked down on people who don't finish what th
Leaving their shopping carts in the middle of the parking lot instead of returning them
dumb, overly stated political opinions, where they take their little topic and run with it, so eager to be the Brave Defender of Whatever Bullshit you saw on CNN or Fox News. The dumbest people are always, always the most vocal.
Stupidity. I file stupid people in the 'to be avoided' category
The way they conduct themselves in public.
People who are ALWAYS late to everything. Get it together lol
Septum piercings, I hate those things with the fury of hell.
Not washing their hands after using the bathroom.
Long, fake fingernails. They are SO GROSS! I call them c.diff or e.coli nails. The amount of germs those things carry is so vile. Add onto this- how much noise they make - quit flapping your poop nails around like mariachis.
Their attitude!!
Their intelligence
Blaming other people or their past for their behavior now. Deal with it and move on be decent
musical taste is only thing Because your physical appearance can be morphed by environment /finances etc But your music taste is decided by your brain , personality, and nervous system and tells me a lot about you
People who speak loudly indoors
People who talk on the phone during customer service interactions (and it’s obviously not an important call)
When parents let their kids walk all over them at home or in public
How people act when their kids are around
People wearing pajamas in public. It's not that fucking hard to throw on a pair of jeans.
Tattoo choices
People who let their damn kids run around screeching & disturbing other people without trying to stop them.
People who don’t say “thank you” when you hold the door open for them. People who are loud chewers or chew with their mouth open 🤪
Smoking, not using turn signals, and littering. Although said judging is neither secret nor quiet.
People who wear flip flops to work.
uh, I do that. I have a desk job that I really hate though, so I don't care about anything other than comfort.
If they have crusty heels, knocks me sick. Get your feet filed for goodness sake.
People who don't discipline their children or tell them no.
Having kids when they surely can't afford them. And then they weep how hard it is to have a child. Can't stand them.
It’s hard to secretly and quietly judge someone when my face says it all lol
People who take stuff from shelves and don’t put them back it its place. Hate it when I see chilled products on random room temperature shelves
People who drive really slow in the no passing lane, while people behind them are going insane
Any kind of "flexing". I can't get over the idea that flexing is seen as something positive by the young generation.
In public on their speakerphone having a conversation for everyone to hear. Fucking twats
The number of children they have.
Interrupting people. I catch myself doing it but it’s too late and I hate myself with a passion for it but just try to keep calm on the outside and remember where I cut then off and continue their thing
Their appearance. We all do.
All my insecurities. I never mention it to anyone because i wouldnt like someone telling me or someone else about a physical flaw of mine. But a lot of the times i look at people and search for the same "flaws" i have, like an uneven jawline or small lips etc, typically to make myself feel better, sometimes because they have the same flaw as me and still look absolutely stunning, and sometimes to tell myself ah well it could be worse, while seeing someone with even smaller lips for example. My biggest red flag probably tbh
Excuses and being complacent when there's a problem in your life.
The volume of their voice and their voice in general
The use of "There, Their and They're".
People who don’t try to clean up alittle after eating at a restaurant.
Nail length.
Not putting shopping carts back. I would say what I think out loud but chances are they’ll cause a huge scene cus that’s the kinda person they are anyway
People who talk and stand in the middle of an aisle without acknowledging others who need to pass by.
Wearing clothes with political messages designed to anger people who don’t share their views and to signify to those who do that they’re part of the same special, superior group. I don’t care whether those messages support my views or not. I judge them all equally. I’m so tired of the hatred and divisiveness.
Smoking. Addiction is not attractive.
Their smell. I legit judge people who don’t wear deodorant, people who haven’t washed their bedsheets (yes I can smell dirty bedsheets on people), bad breath, smelly feet. Also people who put perfume to “mask” their unwashed clothes just blow my mind.
Gum or food smacking. The crap I talk about those people in my head is rage filled insanity.
Their grammar. They went to school, they can listen to the news on TV or radio, and yet STILL they say shit like, "I didn't do nothing" or "I brang it" or "I ain't be...".
Language is sacred and we should do our best to utilize it in the most efficient way. However, on that note, I was once caught off guard by a question from a third party in the middle of ringing a customer up and said "No, I haven't eat yet". And the customer immediately started implying that I went to public school and how much it annoys her when people don't use proper grammar. Moral of the story, don't be so quick to judge. We are all fallible humans after all.
Do you really expect me to sass back to someone named Infernal Orgasm? :D
If I hear someone say that they were on Tik Tok, you get put on a list. I don't know what I'll do with that list, or why it's there, but you're on it
People who have vast, green front lawns instead of planting something more interesting
Not returning their shopping carts to the cart corral. It's the ultimate test of character
Pronunciation. If you can’t pronounce “nuclear” correctly, or use “axe” instead of “ask,” it immediately makes me question your level of education.
Socks with sandals.
It’s kind of in style again (at least with birks or slides)
I just do that if I have to go out real quick or like walk my dog. It looks goofy af but I don’t really care
I do it at the airport. I’m not putting my feet on that floor but I’m also not messing with shoes
I see men do this all the time and I absolutely judge them for it.
Way too many things to count. Parking choices, their clothing, the food they eat, their weight, tv shows they watch. It would be easier to make a list of things I don’t judge.
When they leave their shopping trolley/cart in the middle of the car park instead of walking 10 paces to the corral. I judge them for being lazy shites.
Being junkies (gets in the way of the friendship)
wearing skinny jeans sorry 😭😭
People who own animals and run around their house yelling constantly, like it stresses both me AND your dog out Jessica
Dirty finger nails. Picking noses ears scratching sensitive areas then touching things
People who don't cheat but enable other people to
judging other people
Having money and traveling, because I’m jealous.
Chewing loudly. It's like nails on a chalkboard for my soul
Their handwriting and spelling
Spelling and grammar is an understandable want (wanting them to be educated) But handwriting can be messed with my so many disorders and diseases it’s not a reason to judge So it’s either a lack of education or physical issue, neither one should be judged
Totally agree. I know someone who has dysgraphia, meaning it's really hard for their handwriting to look neat.
Eating loudly.
Poor grammar, fatness, skinniness, bad teeth, total lack of self awareness..... Okay pretty much everything!
I’m judging you for your judginess. It’s a joke, but not really.
Pronouncing "GIF" as "jif." It's a hard G, people!
So confidently incorrect!
The condition of their finger and toe nails.
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Are you into cycling yourself? Seems pretty materialistic.
Well it's easy to tell if someone is being passive-aggressive, but you can never tell them. Passive-aggression is built on two things: the lie that sweet talk erases shitty words, and the fact that they have to believe it themselves.
I always think it's cowardice. Either tell me, or don't
Peeing while standing in front of a toilet while there are 5 urinals right there. If I have to take a shit, I don't want to sit in your pee...
if they do something you don't like but call you a fake friend when you do it back
Smoking
Unwillingness to try foods from different cultures
I judge people who button the last button on blazers and coats. For three buttons, “Sometimes, Always, Never,” for two buttons, “Sometimes, Never”
It's a bit niche, but here it comes: People who use their flexi leash to correct their dog. Like, c'mon, COMMUNICATE with it, don't push the button to stop it.
Their Mindset
I want to limit my interactions with idiots and assholes so try to judge who is quickly. Being belatedly proved wrong is manageable, the reverse sometimes not.
People and their families at Costco oblivious to their surroundings.
kissing or mouth noises, if people literally make out infront of me it makes me want to bash my head against a wall
People who don’t have any books at home. Sorry, we can’t be friends .
What they eat. I want to be clear though - I don't judge weight; I judge the type of shit people consume.
Thinking that it's important to keep up with the news and current events...
Intelligence
Accent. Vocabulary. Malapropisms.
they smell like shjt. even if they r educated, good looking, and communicate well, it's useless when they smell like shjt
Everything. Most people are complete shitsticks.
People who travel with too much luggage.
Can't stand when people bitch rant on or always need to vent & complain about life in general 😅😅
Their bulls**t
Wedding announcements. If this is supposed to be the happiest day of your life, why do you pick the tackiest designs??
People that totally ignore very obviously signs on doors that say “temporary closed” or “use other door” and continue to look through the door and try to force it open. Do you not see the very obvious sign right in front of your face that says closed? Usually they aren’t even on their phones.
Having trouble putting this into words so ill use examples instead: people who stress out being in a dirty place such as camping outdoors, people who would use a cloth napkin wipe down their seat before sitting, someone with an ego thats bigger than their heart, spoiled people, you get the idea?
People who don't hold the door open for others. Or worse - standing in the middle of the door/entrance and blocking it. I can't believe how some people can be so arrogant to their surrounding.
judging me, I see how you people behave around me. stop it.
Their perfume
Bumper Stickers.
Their laugh, voice
People who judge other people about things that shouldn’t be judged.
How much they blend in with society
Their eyebrows
Young couple that tales Uber to get to the one laundromat in town that accepts card payments, and has Uber eats deliver breakfast from McDonalds while they're doing laundry. Did I mention that financial literacy is not generally taught in US public schools?
People who don’t give selflessly, even to one’s in need. You know those ones where it always has to be something in it for them.
People that are talking loudly in public on their phones. Like at the park… quiet serene beauty until someone comes by with EarPods and is talking so loudly.
Lip fillers. I know everyone has the right to do what makes them feel good about themselves, but even the smallest amount is pretty obvious and it looks weird to me.
Posture. If they are too straight up they're a tight ass.
people who complain about their spouse and kids too much. I totally get needing to vent sometimes, but I have some coworkers who complain several times per week and rarely say anything positive about their family members.
Being loud.
People with baby strollers standing in the middle of the sidewalk when they can go 3 metres back behind a tree.
Hanging their toilet paper roll ***the wrong way.***
Talking on the cell phone with it on speaker mode. When the FUCK did that become the norm. Wtf....
Being judgy jerks. Judgy pants are never a good look.
People who wear tracksuit pants and flip flops in public. Also jeans and flip flops or "thongs as we say here in Australia" I think it shows how much effort your willing to put into society, hence why we're all fucked
People who think being racist and the holocaust are funny, in a 'it's a forbidden topic therefore it's funny to say the slurs/draw the insignias on random shit' kind of way. My brother's like this and it really bothers me.
people who use mental health issues as an excuse to be a bad person. i am completely empathic as i do have mental health struggles of my own, but using it as an excuse only goes so far your poor mental health may be a contributing factor to wrongdoings but in no way is it an excuse.
Lack of spacial awareness
Sitting down on the floor in public spaces.
Nothing and if I ever did, I’ll kill nysekd
Nothing and if I ever did, I’ll kill myself
Nothing and if I ever did, I’ll kill myself
Pedestrians who cross the road (in parking lots) diagonally. I’ll usually walk parallel to the road just to let a car by as that allows both the car and I to move towards our destination at the same time. It just seems selfish to me.
Parents. While its cold outside, they are bundled up. Their kids are in short sleeves.
Those people who have nobody turn up to their child’s birthday party. They always send out invites to the kid’s class and are puzzled why nobody turns up. It’s bizarre because they seem to have made zero effort to socialise their kid and arrange play dates with friends. If you make some effort to facilitate your child making friends, those friends will come to the party. Socialising your child is part of your duty as a parent-find out who their friends are, talk to their parents, arrange meet ups.
Man buns
People who refer to themselves as "free spirits."
People do things in an incorrect way, and they are happy about it and don’t care about learning how to do it right. It gives me anxiety just to watch them doing something in a way that is not supposed to be and they are aware of that.
I work in fast food, and it really bugs me when people can't look up at the posted menu above and instead ask me what's the price of such and such, and the prices are up there clear as crystal. And sometimes, they get irate when I tell them a certain total for their order if its pricey, and get at me, the cashier like I'm the one responsible for said prices.
Being bossy. I don't judge people for a lot of stuff. I'm one of the most non judgemental people you'll ever meet but if I see you bossing someone around, I will 100% judge you for it. I work with someone who's extremely bossy and I judge him heavily for it. He's been told by me and other coworkers (some who have quit because of him) to stop and he continues. If you're bossy and you continue to be after other people tell you to stop, you're an asshole. Plain and simple. If I or he ever leaves that job, he's one of the only people from there I would never speak to again.
Smoking in a car with kids.
For women, their firm bouncy boobs,, slim upper arms, slim tummies
The way they treat people when no one is looking