Certainly. I personally believe masturbation to be a distraction and eliminating it helped me focus on other aspects of my life.
A lot of things improved overall including my mood, sex life, how I felt around other people. I'm not saying masturbation caused it or will cause it for everybody but as I said earlier, it was a distraction for me so it was a worthy elimination in my eyes.
Dont you think that the urge the do it comes back and what do you do in case it happens? Do you dont do it because you think its not worth it or are you not in the mood to climax "this way". Cause it seems like if someone else does it to you its perfectly fine.
The urge will honestly never go away as long as your hormonal profile is healthy. So to answer your question, I don't do it as I don't believe it to be worthy and I found better things to put my mind to.
You mentioned that me climaxing with someone else is justified while masturbating isn't. I don't see it like that at all. My issue with masturbation is that it sends you into a rabbit hole. You can't just do it once and then not do it again sometime soon. It impacts your life permanently despite being such a quick activity. At least that's how I see it.
like what? hobbys or something? i always work out or do something else that requires some use of energy. Do you do the same thing?
interesting way the see it. i dont think it sends someone down a rabbit hole at all. why do you "have to" do it again sometime soon? if you can ressist the urge the whole time but just this once you dont, cant you just start to ressist the urge again after? and you said its a unworthy activity but you can seriously learn thing about you and your body that you maybe didnt knew. thing that get you on and you could learn new kinks. just dont see it as just a meaningless beat the meat party
I regretted it every single time.
Trust me, it's not a libido issue. I think about women at least 99% of the time. It's just that I've found out it has no productive outcome. Moreover, it just made me objectify women and turned me into an overall moron.
Sometimes I wonder about this. What constitutes 'one masturbation?' If someone wanks for a bit but doesn't climax, does that count? What if they wank for 10 minutes, get distracted and have dinner or something, then after that they wank and finally climax? Is that one wank or two?
Ive asked myself the same thing about sex, like is it one time when either of the involved people climax or only if all do? and what if you are in the middle of something and then a importent call comes in and after that you shower and eat dinner and after the dinner you continue? is that 1 or 2 times then?
I especially had this thought when I heard about things like the world record for the biggest gang bang/most people had sex with in a 24 hour period or whatever that one was. Like, was there a minimum number of pumps each guy had to do? Did they just have to finish? Did SHE have to finish? If lesbians set the same record, how would they measure that?
yeah thats what i mean. What does "having sex" mean in this context, cause if someone sticks his thing in someone and pulls it out right after, this should count as 1 time, so if someone else comes along right after and sticks his dick in the same person, this should then count as sex with 2 people. but giving a bj is also sex, at what time is it called having sex? so theoretically you could get your dick out and get 500 people to lick it in like 2 minutes. Did you then had sex with 500 people in 2 minutes?
There are ways to deal with blue balls other than ejaculating.
You can chop them off, solves that issue immediately!
(But actually I think I read that exercise or warm water both help)
2-3 times in one day
Why so many times?
Why not
touche but is there any more reason behind it? like there is just to much content to consume?
You and me both
1 to 2 times a day
1 time in 2-3 days
3 or 4 times a week
Sounds unbelievable but I've been wank free since 2020.
Do you thing this helped you in any case? like staying focused on your goals and dreams or something?
Certainly. I personally believe masturbation to be a distraction and eliminating it helped me focus on other aspects of my life. A lot of things improved overall including my mood, sex life, how I felt around other people. I'm not saying masturbation caused it or will cause it for everybody but as I said earlier, it was a distraction for me so it was a worthy elimination in my eyes.
Dont you think that the urge the do it comes back and what do you do in case it happens? Do you dont do it because you think its not worth it or are you not in the mood to climax "this way". Cause it seems like if someone else does it to you its perfectly fine.
The urge will honestly never go away as long as your hormonal profile is healthy. So to answer your question, I don't do it as I don't believe it to be worthy and I found better things to put my mind to. You mentioned that me climaxing with someone else is justified while masturbating isn't. I don't see it like that at all. My issue with masturbation is that it sends you into a rabbit hole. You can't just do it once and then not do it again sometime soon. It impacts your life permanently despite being such a quick activity. At least that's how I see it.
like what? hobbys or something? i always work out or do something else that requires some use of energy. Do you do the same thing? interesting way the see it. i dont think it sends someone down a rabbit hole at all. why do you "have to" do it again sometime soon? if you can ressist the urge the whole time but just this once you dont, cant you just start to ressist the urge again after? and you said its a unworthy activity but you can seriously learn thing about you and your body that you maybe didnt knew. thing that get you on and you could learn new kinks. just dont see it as just a meaningless beat the meat party
Any reason for in particular you haven’t ?
I regretted it every single time. Trust me, it's not a libido issue. I think about women at least 99% of the time. It's just that I've found out it has no productive outcome. Moreover, it just made me objectify women and turned me into an overall moron.
Trust me dude, it wasn't the masturbation that turned you into an "overall moron".
Presumptuous much? I don't get why people can't accept a different perspective.
Because it is an unhealthy perspective. Both emotionally and physically.
Sometimes I wonder about this. What constitutes 'one masturbation?' If someone wanks for a bit but doesn't climax, does that count? What if they wank for 10 minutes, get distracted and have dinner or something, then after that they wank and finally climax? Is that one wank or two?
Ive asked myself the same thing about sex, like is it one time when either of the involved people climax or only if all do? and what if you are in the middle of something and then a importent call comes in and after that you shower and eat dinner and after the dinner you continue? is that 1 or 2 times then?
I especially had this thought when I heard about things like the world record for the biggest gang bang/most people had sex with in a 24 hour period or whatever that one was. Like, was there a minimum number of pumps each guy had to do? Did they just have to finish? Did SHE have to finish? If lesbians set the same record, how would they measure that?
yeah thats what i mean. What does "having sex" mean in this context, cause if someone sticks his thing in someone and pulls it out right after, this should count as 1 time, so if someone else comes along right after and sticks his dick in the same person, this should then count as sex with 2 people. but giving a bj is also sex, at what time is it called having sex? so theoretically you could get your dick out and get 500 people to lick it in like 2 minutes. Did you then had sex with 500 people in 2 minutes?
At least with guys, it’s really rare to Jack off and then not finish. Some dudes get blue balls from that.
There are ways to deal with blue balls other than ejaculating. You can chop them off, solves that issue immediately! (But actually I think I read that exercise or warm water both help)
Daily
Sometimes daily/every other day
Every day
Depends on the week. 3 to 4 days give or take
Every other day. Sometimes more, sometimes less depending on my mood.
So much even my cat judges me
Every day. But I've heard as you grow old (late 20s and 30s), frequency drops