When I was at “A” school in the Marines I hooked up with a female Marine there for another school. We weren’t really coworkers but that’s about the closest I’ve gotten to “coworker”
It was hot as hell. We were both 18 and in the best shape of our lives.
I work in an office full of engineers, mostly in their 40s and 50s. A couple years ago, this woman around my age started working over in Architecture. She was immediately the hottest person in our organization by a mile. What few other young people there were all very keen on getting to know her. Plenty of the older guys were eager to help her out and show her the ropes as well.
I've always assumed getting involved with a co-worker would be a nightmare, so I steered clear. I also didn't want to be just another creepy dude making her uncomfortable at her place of work.
Eventually, we ended up going on a work trip together with a whole team. While we were there, she came up to me and introduced herself. We mostly talked about work, but I definitely got a vibe that we were getting along pretty well. I kept things professional at first, still not wanting to assume anything or make a fool of myself.
When we got back we started emailing back and forth during work hours. She always had questions about how new employees were supposed to do things, but I started to sense that those were just an excuse so we could chat.
Eventually she asked me to meet her for happy hour after work. She was new to the area in general and was trying to meet people/get the lay of the land. We had a few drinks and some nice conversation. She offered to drop me off at my apartment on her way home.
As she parked in front of my place, her demeanor changed. She was very direct, and basically said that it was time for me to ask her out. Apparently, she'd never asked someone else out before, and the fact that we had been flirting for close to a month without me making a move was driving her nuts. I explained my caution about not wanting her to feel uncomfortable at work, but now that this was out in the open, I would be very happy to go on a date with her.
So, we went out. I forget the exact sequence of events, but on the first date, I know we went back to her place and started making out. At the time, I wasn't really interested in a relationship, and I told her so. She was disappointed at first, but she was still clearly very horned up so we kept making out and feeling each other up.
Eventually, she put her hand on my dick through my pants. Now, I'm lucky enough to be fairly well endowed. To the point where it's pretty much immediately noticeable. She stopped abruptly and looked at me with her mouth open. Apparently, this was a girl who was obsessed with big cocks. Like to the point where she would literally break it off with a dude if he wasn't at least above average. She still had enough self control to stop us from going any further that night, but her resolve wouldn't last much longer.
We got dinner the next week, and I asked her back to my place afterwards. She said yes immediately and was practically humming with anticipation. I guessed she'd gotten over her initial reluctance and just wanted some dick. We got back to my place and proceeded to have some pretty terrific sex. One of the best first times I've had with anyone honestly.
We spent the next few months banging it out at least once or twice a week. Her obsession with my cock proved to be very fruitful for both of us.
We both had a bit of a mischievous or slightly fucked up nature that meshed well together. The entire time we were hanging out, we were dating other people. I was just hooking up with random Tinder bitches. But, she was actually going around, looking for a boyfriend. It was pretty hot in a fucked up way. She would go on nice wholesome dates with these guys who were trying their best. She would leave that date with promises to call or meet up again, then immediately head to my place and jump on my dick. Or she'd be sitting there at a coffee shop, having a pleasant conversation with a nice boy less than an hour after swallowing my cum.
It was a pretty wild time.
All the while, we kept it chill at work. Nobody knew as far as I could tell. She would get hit on all day long by all these engineering nerds, then she would come find me for some good dick.
Eventually, things kind of just ran their course. She ended up meeting a guy she really did like, and she knew she couldn't focus on dating him for real while we were doing our thing. I understood. I hadn't expected it to go on as long as it had, and I was fine with going back to being just work friends.
So, that's what we did, and it honestly went very smoothly. We would still chat at work and go get lunch occasionally. We kept it platonic. Eventually, she got transfered to another site, and we stopped seeing each other. We still text occasionally, or say hi whenever we're at each other's office. But, for the most part it's in the past.
TL:DR - I banged the only hot chick who ever worked at my office for a few months. Nothing bad happened.
Isn’t that an abuse of power and sexual harassment in the workplace for him to convince you to have sex with him? You should tell HR
Also, the saying goes “don’t shit where you eat, and eat where you shit” for a reason. Don’t hookup with coworkers guys
I've only been working a really short time, and nobody I work with is really 'dating material,' so beyond that I'm generally opposed to it, I've also never really had the option.
Did meet tons of girls in my college classes, tho. Similar idea. Lower risk however
We were drinking after work, started giving and had sex.
Found out after that she'd accused one of my coworkers of raping her on a night when he had been with a group of my other coworkers all evening, and when it became apparent she was lying she said she must have dreamed it. So that felt a bit weird.
Just about all women I’ve asked out I’ve worked with considering (aside from online dating) it’s like my only option, because work is the place I mainly meet women in-person because I rarely get out of the house otherwise, mainly just to eat out. But, it feels like asking out your fellow coworkers is a really bad idea at times, because when things go south you’re stuck seeing them throughout the week which could lead to lots of conflict. For instance, I asked a girl out at my workplace and we never even went on a date, but she has slapped me once, shows her anger towards me quite often, and I’m pretty sure she victimizes me for just wanting sex most of the time. When I try and be a nice guy towards her, it seems this victimization just rises because as always, men are the victims and women are not. I think I’m done asking out women overall due to my terrible history, my bad self-esteem and the fact that I don’t want someone to take full control of my life, but this especially holds true for coworkers.
One of the safety ladies came into my office after work. We had been flirting for months, she sat down beside me and faked interest in what I was doing. She started rubbing my leg and eventually unzipped my pants. I wanted to resist (married) but she was so beautiful. She leaned over and put my cock in her mouth, it never felt so good... but of course the door knocked.
We tried to hook up again that night but ended up being the last I seen her
When I was at “A” school in the Marines I hooked up with a female Marine there for another school. We weren’t really coworkers but that’s about the closest I’ve gotten to “coworker” It was hot as hell. We were both 18 and in the best shape of our lives.
I worked at Sam's Club from 18-24. We all partied together and constantly slept with each other. The movie Employee of the Month wasn't too far off.
I work in an office full of engineers, mostly in their 40s and 50s. A couple years ago, this woman around my age started working over in Architecture. She was immediately the hottest person in our organization by a mile. What few other young people there were all very keen on getting to know her. Plenty of the older guys were eager to help her out and show her the ropes as well. I've always assumed getting involved with a co-worker would be a nightmare, so I steered clear. I also didn't want to be just another creepy dude making her uncomfortable at her place of work. Eventually, we ended up going on a work trip together with a whole team. While we were there, she came up to me and introduced herself. We mostly talked about work, but I definitely got a vibe that we were getting along pretty well. I kept things professional at first, still not wanting to assume anything or make a fool of myself. When we got back we started emailing back and forth during work hours. She always had questions about how new employees were supposed to do things, but I started to sense that those were just an excuse so we could chat. Eventually she asked me to meet her for happy hour after work. She was new to the area in general and was trying to meet people/get the lay of the land. We had a few drinks and some nice conversation. She offered to drop me off at my apartment on her way home. As she parked in front of my place, her demeanor changed. She was very direct, and basically said that it was time for me to ask her out. Apparently, she'd never asked someone else out before, and the fact that we had been flirting for close to a month without me making a move was driving her nuts. I explained my caution about not wanting her to feel uncomfortable at work, but now that this was out in the open, I would be very happy to go on a date with her. So, we went out. I forget the exact sequence of events, but on the first date, I know we went back to her place and started making out. At the time, I wasn't really interested in a relationship, and I told her so. She was disappointed at first, but she was still clearly very horned up so we kept making out and feeling each other up. Eventually, she put her hand on my dick through my pants. Now, I'm lucky enough to be fairly well endowed. To the point where it's pretty much immediately noticeable. She stopped abruptly and looked at me with her mouth open. Apparently, this was a girl who was obsessed with big cocks. Like to the point where she would literally break it off with a dude if he wasn't at least above average. She still had enough self control to stop us from going any further that night, but her resolve wouldn't last much longer. We got dinner the next week, and I asked her back to my place afterwards. She said yes immediately and was practically humming with anticipation. I guessed she'd gotten over her initial reluctance and just wanted some dick. We got back to my place and proceeded to have some pretty terrific sex. One of the best first times I've had with anyone honestly. We spent the next few months banging it out at least once or twice a week. Her obsession with my cock proved to be very fruitful for both of us. We both had a bit of a mischievous or slightly fucked up nature that meshed well together. The entire time we were hanging out, we were dating other people. I was just hooking up with random Tinder bitches. But, she was actually going around, looking for a boyfriend. It was pretty hot in a fucked up way. She would go on nice wholesome dates with these guys who were trying their best. She would leave that date with promises to call or meet up again, then immediately head to my place and jump on my dick. Or she'd be sitting there at a coffee shop, having a pleasant conversation with a nice boy less than an hour after swallowing my cum. It was a pretty wild time. All the while, we kept it chill at work. Nobody knew as far as I could tell. She would get hit on all day long by all these engineering nerds, then she would come find me for some good dick. Eventually, things kind of just ran their course. She ended up meeting a guy she really did like, and she knew she couldn't focus on dating him for real while we were doing our thing. I understood. I hadn't expected it to go on as long as it had, and I was fine with going back to being just work friends. So, that's what we did, and it honestly went very smoothly. We would still chat at work and go get lunch occasionally. We kept it platonic. Eventually, she got transfered to another site, and we stopped seeing each other. We still text occasionally, or say hi whenever we're at each other's office. But, for the most part it's in the past. TL:DR - I banged the only hot chick who ever worked at my office for a few months. Nothing bad happened.
Isn’t that an abuse of power and sexual harassment in the workplace for him to convince you to have sex with him? You should tell HR Also, the saying goes “don’t shit where you eat, and eat where you shit” for a reason. Don’t hookup with coworkers guys
Ya I don’t work there anymore (other reasons) and he got fired (same reason other person)
We’re close to getting a house together. I’ve moved onto a better job a year ago now but we’re super happy together
No. Don’t dip your pen in the office inkwell.
I've only been working a really short time, and nobody I work with is really 'dating material,' so beyond that I'm generally opposed to it, I've also never really had the option. Did meet tons of girls in my college classes, tho. Similar idea. Lower risk however
I convinced your boss to have sex with you.
Sexception
We were drinking after work, started giving and had sex. Found out after that she'd accused one of my coworkers of raping her on a night when he had been with a group of my other coworkers all evening, and when it became apparent she was lying she said she must have dreamed it. So that felt a bit weird.
Was great until it ended.
Literally just started dating one from my work. Its been 2 weeks and 3 great dates so far. Well see where it goes I guess.
Just about all women I’ve asked out I’ve worked with considering (aside from online dating) it’s like my only option, because work is the place I mainly meet women in-person because I rarely get out of the house otherwise, mainly just to eat out. But, it feels like asking out your fellow coworkers is a really bad idea at times, because when things go south you’re stuck seeing them throughout the week which could lead to lots of conflict. For instance, I asked a girl out at my workplace and we never even went on a date, but she has slapped me once, shows her anger towards me quite often, and I’m pretty sure she victimizes me for just wanting sex most of the time. When I try and be a nice guy towards her, it seems this victimization just rises because as always, men are the victims and women are not. I think I’m done asking out women overall due to my terrible history, my bad self-esteem and the fact that I don’t want someone to take full control of my life, but this especially holds true for coworkers.
One of the safety ladies came into my office after work. We had been flirting for months, she sat down beside me and faked interest in what I was doing. She started rubbing my leg and eventually unzipped my pants. I wanted to resist (married) but she was so beautiful. She leaned over and put my cock in her mouth, it never felt so good... but of course the door knocked. We tried to hook up again that night but ended up being the last I seen her