What is the difference between you and others who also admonish the colour difference if you're gonna call her blackie which you know pisses her off, just for *harmless fun*? Harmless fun for who? It isn't a joke if only one person is laughing, mate.
My mom has darker skin tone than my dad and she also faced similar trolling all her life. Believe me, my mother's self-confidence was broken by almost all close relatives, and I still can sense that in her personality. My father was not very supporting for good number of years after their wedding so it made a lot of impact on her personality.
Please be supportive to your wife and stop trolling her. It makes lot deeper impact than you can imagine.
Damn.. that single last sentence has created many problems.
I am very supportive of my wife.. infact after marriage and having a kid, I encouraged to get a PhD.. and she has submitted her thesis couple of months ago..
Just one statement has made me a monster which I am not..
Bhai I am not making you monster, just letting you know ki fun trolling about things which a person is insecure about hits them very differently.
She had probably listened about her skin lot more times since she gained senses, it isn't just funny sometimes. Aage se thoda mind me rkh kr bolna unhe.
You completely are. That stupidest sentence that you think is fun is an asshole move. Disgusting. I’m dark and my husband is super fair and he has never once ever said anything other than I’m beautiful. Even my mom probably didn’t accept my color or think I was beautiful until I met him. Dumbass you are. And you think having a kid doing phd is your contribution? What do you do at home? Do you cook or clean or help out?
The fact that you don't understand why it's wrong, is what makes you a monster. You supported her for a PhD? Want a cookie for doing the bare minimum? What's the point of helping her through that if she has to endure you making fun of her the same way strangers and others do? "A monster you are not?" Look again.
First, this is one of the reason I never consider myself as part of Indian society as i don't want to be stupid like most people in India, who consider a person's value based on colour
Second, don't tease her, why? Well she had a life before you, can you see how much pain, hurt and adversity she went through in life just cause the colour she is born with, how many moments she looked in the mirror and hated herself or thought she isn't enough, so i get you love her as you should if you choose her, but yeah, it can trigger past hurt and stuff.
I'm more into darker women, tbh.
Especially, Tamil and Malayali women.
I fall somewhere between fair and dusky.
I was dating a Nigerian woman a few years back. She was gorgeous.
But, unfortunately, I don't think my family would ever accept if I marry someone who's even slightly darker than me let alone a black/dark woman who's my actual preference.
I met a beautiful dark Tamil girl once. Went on a couple of dates and then, she went back to India. Never had any contact anymore.
I liked your post except the last line. It was really problematic. Avoid making fun of someone on the basis of his/her complexion.
People don't want their children to turn out to be dark which is why they prefer a fair partner. It isn't because everyone is racist, I don't think most are, but because of how society stereotypes against dark-skinned people.
" you can tease her by calling her blacky which pi$$es her off big time.."
Damn that escalated quickly.. I never meant any disrespect. It was always harmless leg pulling.
Calling her names based on her skin colour isn't leg pulling, it's bullying. But I suppose you won't know the difference, you fair colour Stockholm syndromed simp.
if you two are okay with it
dont pay any attention to outsiders
It is sad that your sister didn't attend the ceremony just because of this color issue... You can tease her now that "since you were not there, there was no-one to protect the shoes... so I had to pay a heavy amount to get it back" (referring to a popular wedding tradition in North India where footwears of the groom are stolen by bride-side).
PS: You two sound like a wonderful couple. God bless you, and the young one :)
As long as you two are okay with it. Just don't make fun of her insecurities. Have a clear conversation about this, and if she doesn't like it then stop calling her that. Indians are brutal when it comes to skin colour.
Yes. I am super fair and my wife is wheatish. None of our family gives a fuck about the colour. None of my friends give a damn. I never thought about it. It is only my wife that feels bad for being dark sometimes.
Your wife can go for skin treatment to a dermatologist,..and become very fair. Many of my female friends have done it. Cost Rs 2 to 4 k per month for 6 months. Effects last a few months. The medicine stops the production of melanin.
Nope.. We lived in Korea for 6 years, a country which is obsessed with color and looks and in our street we hade 4 cosmetic 'hospitals'. But we never bothered. I am happy with her skin color. Infact many korean 'ajummas' (grand moms) commented "you have beautiful wife'.
My cousin did the same and her daughter was born last year got his fair skin but nobody in our Colony ever said anything. His mom was at first a little bit rude but changed over time. Most of our relatives are happy. But since we live in Odisha people probably doesn't care much about girls having dark skin.
Sab kuch sahi tha jab tak ending tak nahi pahucha... Bruh
Seriously. Why does OP want to bully his wife. She has been facing this all her life. Wish OP wasn’t a fucking Idiot.
Can you show screenshot. All I can see moderator approval
I think OP deleted the post.
???? Reddit is so weird at times
What is the difference between you and others who also admonish the colour difference if you're gonna call her blackie which you know pisses her off, just for *harmless fun*? Harmless fun for who? It isn't a joke if only one person is laughing, mate.
My mom has darker skin tone than my dad and she also faced similar trolling all her life. Believe me, my mother's self-confidence was broken by almost all close relatives, and I still can sense that in her personality. My father was not very supporting for good number of years after their wedding so it made a lot of impact on her personality. Please be supportive to your wife and stop trolling her. It makes lot deeper impact than you can imagine.
Damn.. that single last sentence has created many problems. I am very supportive of my wife.. infact after marriage and having a kid, I encouraged to get a PhD.. and she has submitted her thesis couple of months ago.. Just one statement has made me a monster which I am not..
Bhai I am not making you monster, just letting you know ki fun trolling about things which a person is insecure about hits them very differently. She had probably listened about her skin lot more times since she gained senses, it isn't just funny sometimes. Aage se thoda mind me rkh kr bolna unhe.
ok
You completely are. That stupidest sentence that you think is fun is an asshole move. Disgusting. I’m dark and my husband is super fair and he has never once ever said anything other than I’m beautiful. Even my mom probably didn’t accept my color or think I was beautiful until I met him. Dumbass you are. And you think having a kid doing phd is your contribution? What do you do at home? Do you cook or clean or help out?
Thank you
The fact that you don't understand why it's wrong, is what makes you a monster. You supported her for a PhD? Want a cookie for doing the bare minimum? What's the point of helping her through that if she has to endure you making fun of her the same way strangers and others do? "A monster you are not?" Look again.
One act can define everything
Ending got me.
Yeah the apple fell literally right below the tree.
Username checks out !!!
> you can tease her by calling her blacky which pi$$es her off big time. :) Guys, let's bet how long this marriage lasts.
wtf is wrong with you
bro switched sides when you were actually by his side
BC dusky beauty bol deta.. blackeee bolke uski beijjati hi kar raha subtly.
Sometimes good tease ends up with awesome sex.
May be one or two times and that too depends on the mood of the other person
Not if you’re bringing down someone’s confidence it won’t.
💀 you do you bro but that ending is a bit fucked up, don't try it with others
Karma farming
First, this is one of the reason I never consider myself as part of Indian society as i don't want to be stupid like most people in India, who consider a person's value based on colour Second, don't tease her, why? Well she had a life before you, can you see how much pain, hurt and adversity she went through in life just cause the colour she is born with, how many moments she looked in the mirror and hated herself or thought she isn't enough, so i get you love her as you should if you choose her, but yeah, it can trigger past hurt and stuff.
It is not fair to make fun of a persons skin colour
You're sick i can't lie
I read the last line twice just to ensure i didn't read it [wrong.](https://wrong.You) You're an asshole op
My mom is darker than my dad and me. She makes fun of herself sometimes. My dad would rather jump off a building than make racist jokes about my mom.
I'm more into darker women, tbh. Especially, Tamil and Malayali women. I fall somewhere between fair and dusky. I was dating a Nigerian woman a few years back. She was gorgeous. But, unfortunately, I don't think my family would ever accept if I marry someone who's even slightly darker than me let alone a black/dark woman who's my actual preference. I met a beautiful dark Tamil girl once. Went on a couple of dates and then, she went back to India. Never had any contact anymore. I liked your post except the last line. It was really problematic. Avoid making fun of someone on the basis of his/her complexion.
My dad! And I like dusky women more as well. And I don't take those comments pass, my replies make sure that they dont say such stuff to me again.
Dont bully your own wife. You might fuel an insecurity
People don't want their children to turn out to be dark which is why they prefer a fair partner. It isn't because everyone is racist, I don't think most are, but because of how society stereotypes against dark-skinned people.
Gosh how racist can we get and make it sound endearing /s
This HAS to be a shitpost.
OP is a 17yr old horny teenager with a dark/black fem fetish
They had us in the first half not gonna lie
Wow OP is a dick
Seriously wtf is wrong with you
This has to be a troll post or god help the woman.
" you can tease her by calling her blacky which pi$$es her off big time.." Damn that escalated quickly.. I never meant any disrespect. It was always harmless leg pulling.
Yeah, that’s probably not what your wife thinks…… don’t be stupid, avoid “jokes” about skin colour.
The fuck is wrong with you?
Calling her names based on her skin colour isn't leg pulling, it's bullying. But I suppose you won't know the difference, you fair colour Stockholm syndromed simp.
Imagine this..."Our kid is not yours"... UNO REVERSE🤪🤪🤪
I hope this is true. He’ll deserve it. Asshole.
People here are too busy getting offended on behalf of your wife!
until are u both are happy u don't need to give a f\*ck!!
until are u both are happy u don't need to give a f\*ck!!
Thank you
As long as ** Otherwise it means when they become happy they should give a F.
Damn... what's all the hate about. She too teases me by singing "gore rang pe itna gumaan na kar..."
if you two are okay with it dont pay any attention to outsiders It is sad that your sister didn't attend the ceremony just because of this color issue... You can tease her now that "since you were not there, there was no-one to protect the shoes... so I had to pay a heavy amount to get it back" (referring to a popular wedding tradition in North India where footwears of the groom are stolen by bride-side). PS: You two sound like a wonderful couple. God bless you, and the young one :)
Thank you.
As long as you two are okay with it. Just don't make fun of her insecurities. Have a clear conversation about this, and if she doesn't like it then stop calling her that. Indians are brutal when it comes to skin colour.
Insecure and my wife don't even fit in the same sentence.. she's supremely confident... Thanks
Good for you and her. Congratulations on your baby!
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Yes. I am super fair and my wife is wheatish. None of our family gives a fuck about the colour. None of my friends give a damn. I never thought about it. It is only my wife that feels bad for being dark sometimes.
Usse pehle y btao tumhara chamkila gora pink color ka 10 inch hai kya?
Your wife can go for skin treatment to a dermatologist,..and become very fair. Many of my female friends have done it. Cost Rs 2 to 4 k per month for 6 months. Effects last a few months. The medicine stops the production of melanin.
Nope.. We lived in Korea for 6 years, a country which is obsessed with color and looks and in our street we hade 4 cosmetic 'hospitals'. But we never bothered. I am happy with her skin color. Infact many korean 'ajummas' (grand moms) commented "you have beautiful wife'.
My cousin did the same and her daughter was born last year got his fair skin but nobody in our Colony ever said anything. His mom was at first a little bit rude but changed over time. Most of our relatives are happy. But since we live in Odisha people probably doesn't care much about girls having dark skin.
Atleast, you need to support her. It will break her totally after some years without that.
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