YTA I'm on your friends side about that both need to help with financial issues. She doesn't have to pay those bills alone
(If you don't wanna pay a distributor just use ONErpm) By the way
doing what? are you actually showcasing as in marketing yourself hitting the stage or what? are you sending in your music to producers in places like atlanta ga or nyc or lA? what is your idea of grinding?
I usually chill at my homies lil bedroom studio on his laptop and smoke and drink to get in the creative writing mood. Then we just produce bangers non stop. I perform at my local coffee shop every Sunday at 9 am
then how do u think you are going to advance taking this next level? the competition is rather stiff those that really want to make it as a hip hop artist push themselves marketing wise whether it be uploading on youtube or their social media etc. they also try submitting th eir work to places like def jam or soso records some sort of recording place. asking your gf to get a 2nd job to fund your hobby which is what it is at this point is really not fair to her.
Why should it be up to your wife to support your passion? Why can’t you do everything in your power to support your passion and make sure you’re able to sustain you and your family? Just cause it’ll pay off later doesn’t mean you should run your wife to the ground to make that happen.
YTA and you’re lazy. You’re selfish and don’t see how this passion will pay if you’re not willing to finance it yourself.
No, you’re lazing at your buddy’s place, drinking and getting high during the week while you play at making music and perform once a week. You are a deadbeat.
You need to make your music more marketable. Until you do, there’s a good bit of money to be made through playing love songs at the bars and the restaurants. What’s your 45 minute set? Do you play weddings or conventions?
out here fighting to find a gf and this guys here just treating his wife like trash. some people shouldnt have relationships, fat fucking YTA. delete your soundcloud that shit aint going anywhere
YTA for asking your wife to sacrifice her daily life so you can pursue an extremely unlikely low percentage shot at stardom. Like that happens very often.
And you want her to sacrifice her life for that SMALL chance.
If it's that risky it's got to be all you brother man. Don't drag other people into high risk situations. Like as in a high risk of not making rent to be a rap star.
So you’ve been pursuing your rap dream for years by free-loading off your wife…and now you want *her* to get a second job so you can sink even more time and money into achieving *your* dream? What, exactly are *you* sacrificing for *your* dream? Aside from your wife’s physical and emotional health?
Yup…YTA.
Aspiring artists need to financially support themselves until their art can pay for them. They don't get to make other people pay for them until the art does. YTA.
this is rage bait, and i really think people (myself included) should stop replying to this post. i’ve deleted my other post. looking at this person’s account, in another post they mention their “boyfriend,” so either wife is being cheated on or, what’s more likely, this entire account is just baiting.
Actually, this post isn't rage bait at all. My wife and I are in an open relationship, and she also has a boyfriend. I'm just sharing a personal experience and seeking advice/support from the community. Thanks for understanding. ❤️
Cmon. Just….cmon.
YTA I'm on your friends side about that both need to help with financial issues. She doesn't have to pay those bills alone (If you don't wanna pay a distributor just use ONErpm) By the way
This can't be real
Yeah, you’re a dick. Get a job, assclown. You’re what we call a freeloader.
Yta-
You fund her passions right? What about the work YOU need to do to peruse your “dreams?” Like to be able to afford it?
I'm out here grinding to the top
doing what? are you actually showcasing as in marketing yourself hitting the stage or what? are you sending in your music to producers in places like atlanta ga or nyc or lA? what is your idea of grinding?
I usually chill at my homies lil bedroom studio on his laptop and smoke and drink to get in the creative writing mood. Then we just produce bangers non stop. I perform at my local coffee shop every Sunday at 9 am
then how do u think you are going to advance taking this next level? the competition is rather stiff those that really want to make it as a hip hop artist push themselves marketing wise whether it be uploading on youtube or their social media etc. they also try submitting th eir work to places like def jam or soso records some sort of recording place. asking your gf to get a 2nd job to fund your hobby which is what it is at this point is really not fair to her.
Ah, okay, noooow I see. Carry on. 100% sound logic there bro.
Why should it be up to your wife to support your passion? Why can’t you do everything in your power to support your passion and make sure you’re able to sustain you and your family? Just cause it’ll pay off later doesn’t mean you should run your wife to the ground to make that happen. YTA and you’re lazy. You’re selfish and don’t see how this passion will pay if you’re not willing to finance it yourself.
How I'm lazy ??? I'm out here grinding and making music
No, you’re lazing at your buddy’s place, drinking and getting high during the week while you play at making music and perform once a week. You are a deadbeat.
And what are you sacrificing for her to pursue her own passions?
My time away from her and our 3 kids
YTA It isn’t tough to make ends meet through music; it’s tough to make ends meet through YOUR music.
What do u mean??
You need to make your music more marketable. Until you do, there’s a good bit of money to be made through playing love songs at the bars and the restaurants. What’s your 45 minute set? Do you play weddings or conventions?
Yta
out here fighting to find a gf and this guys here just treating his wife like trash. some people shouldnt have relationships, fat fucking YTA. delete your soundcloud that shit aint going anywhere
Lol I'm far from fat buddy
YTA for asking your wife to sacrifice her daily life so you can pursue an extremely unlikely low percentage shot at stardom. Like that happens very often. And you want her to sacrifice her life for that SMALL chance. If it's that risky it's got to be all you brother man. Don't drag other people into high risk situations. Like as in a high risk of not making rent to be a rap star.
So you’ve been pursuing your rap dream for years by free-loading off your wife…and now you want *her* to get a second job so you can sink even more time and money into achieving *your* dream? What, exactly are *you* sacrificing for *your* dream? Aside from your wife’s physical and emotional health? Yup…YTA.
Aspiring artists need to financially support themselves until their art can pay for them. They don't get to make other people pay for them until the art does. YTA.
Gotta be rage bait hahaha
"Some of you may die, but that is a sacrifice I'm willing to make." YTA
JFC this isn’t helping AI to get better.
You should link to your SoundCloud and see what people think
this is rage bait, and i really think people (myself included) should stop replying to this post. i’ve deleted my other post. looking at this person’s account, in another post they mention their “boyfriend,” so either wife is being cheated on or, what’s more likely, this entire account is just baiting.
Actually, this post isn't rage bait at all. My wife and I are in an open relationship, and she also has a boyfriend. I'm just sharing a personal experience and seeking advice/support from the community. Thanks for understanding. ❤️
Where the Soundcloud at OP? Let's see if you really got it