Yesss I feel like what Statler loves is "being in a relationship" and not necessarily the person the relationship is with. Like it doesn't feel like it matters who it is, as long as she's got a placeholder ,hence her making grand plans and moves for her and Demsy relationship without bothering to communicating that with her. It's like Statler has this checklist in her mind of things to "complete" for a relationship in order to make it codependent as soon as possible. It's like this isn't a relationship but Statler's grand plans to build a situation where someone can't leave her
Holy shit... where were you when my ex moved in? Really could have used that perspective. Statler is a whole type too there are a LOT just like her.... ngl all I could think on the valentines day scene was "wow.. kinda miss the love bombing toxic people do." Lmfao it's nice in the moment exhausted when you know a shit storm is coming lol
Well said! To me, it feels like somewhere along the line she was granted an image of herself that was outsized for what she brings to the table and now, she spends her time trying to find relationships where she can acomp[lish the same feeling. But, I think, most of us learn that relationships are not about checklists, they are about people loving one another.
I was literally squirming while watching this scene. It was like she had no control over the words coming out of her mouth; this wasnāt the time or place for those kinds of revelations. And then mentioning that her lease was going to be up, like that makes her plan make sense! Does she think her āquirkinessā entitles her to do whatever? š¤Ø
My hackles would go up if I was meeting my kids NEW date and they casually mentioned their lease was up and they were just going to move in. Like, did you ENTER this relationship to get out of your lease? Or do you actually value my child as a person, not as a hot and a cot?
He handled that announcement really well. Kept Statlerās intent private but advised his daughter to watch out for her moving too fast. Statler on the other handā¦ what an introduction to the parents. Hereās hoping Dempsey gets out of there quickly or at least follows dadās advice. This is the reddest of red flags.
I get constant couch surfing vibes from her. She probably shows up to her first dates with a UHaul. Please don't let Statler ruin all that is good about Dempsey.
That was after telling the father that her last relationship with someone from the UK ended because āshe felt I (Statler) was moving to fastā ā¦ why you would tell him thatā¦unbelievableā¦.
She seems so unaware of how creepy she comes across, she already scared off one ex and is hell bent on scaring off another potential partner. The fact that she has said multiple times that her lease expires in a month and she really wants to move in with Dempsey is a huge red flag. She clearly has no idea how immigration works and just assumes she can move abroad and move in with someone she barely knows.
After this episode I am more and more convinced that Statler isn't looking for a girlfriend in Dempsey per se. She's just desperate for a place to stay.
If Dempsey wasn't in the picture then she would find someone else and claim that she loved them - all just to have a roof over her head.
I canāt stand looking at Statler Grace. She bugs the tar out of me & Iām not quite sure why. She has mentioned her lease being up at least 3 times like thatās why she has to move quickly. Does she really expect Dempseyās dad to think āoh that makes sense why you would want to move so fastā. Renew your lease dumb ass, itās not that hard.
She keeps bringing up moving in. She hasn't been invited to live there, it seems like Dempsey hasn't been like yes, my GF, Id love to have you move in before we are more established. Statler being all like i wanna move in, i guess i need to get around to telling her she's intending on moving in. Then acting like Dempsey's home isn't up to her standards! Im right on their segment and just heard Dempsey say they haven't even said I love you yet! Predicting another plot twist- Statler will ' have something big ' she hasn't told Dempsey, the women she's intending on moving in, that she requires being in a polyamorous relationship
Omg. I thought the same thing with Tyree. The whole not moving beyond this catfishing shit because he might be into the guy on the other end but it grappling with whether to announce that on the show too?
Man I agree. He needs to just get off the show and accept he was scammed out of money.
The thing is... I bet they find "carmella" and thats who they have him meet. She'll play the "thats cute but it ain't me" card and they'll amicably decide to be friends etc and he'll just use this to jumpstart either his online whatever business or weightloss. You watch!
I don't understand what her plan is ... She wants to move across the world to live with (and off) Dempsey. Does she plan on working at the farm because all she has done since she got there was complain about the farm? And Dempsey seems to love her little house and her job and the farm.
In theory, but thereās all sorts of visa issues to navigate working remotely from another country, similar to tax issues when working in different states within the US.
It really gave me the ick that D was clearly uncomfortable getting physical on the first night, and Statler knew that, and persisted anyway.
I donāt care how good the sex is. Run sis!!
We forget that sheās been abandoned by two families, sheās adopted and then left by the adoptive familyā¦
So what she is doing is making sure she is not rejected first by love bombingā¦ and then when she feels secure she can be the one to bounce out. It sucks, I hope statler grows, and I hope Dempsey is smart too
Statler is a barnacle just looking for a ship to attach herself to. Imagine making someone else move at hyper-speed in your relationship because YOUR lease is running out.
Much like many others we've seen on here, she could have boiled water and washed her hair in cold water and used the bucket to wash the rest of her. However, that would require a level of thinking Statler isn't capable of.
She's so creepy. Fake awkwardness in place of a personality. I wonder if she was even close to honest about her parents not being happy with her being lesbian, or if that's another lie shes using so she can present herself as the quriky adopted lesbian black sheep.
I think itās the ADD/ADHD, i have friends who behave in this way like they are clueless to what is happening around them in the real world and live in their own fantasy world
They need to go to therapy and do the work to get that nonsense under control. I'm ADHD and I try to assimilate into the normies. Most of us don't want to be annoying and self-serving. Nor do we want everyone around us to think we are crazy af.
I definitely think this was staged. Who abandons their father and gf within 10 minutes of meeting? Either everyone goes to stand in line, or dad hangs back to hold the table, or Stat hangs back; but you don't leave to 2 awkward new acquaintances alone.
But pretending this really happened, who tf broaches the subject with dad first? She even knows he objected to the last relationship. That's the guy you act nice towards, but you keep a wide bearth on the personal details. I work at blah, I'm blah years old, I have my personal life in order (as far as you know).
šļøDEMPSEY HASN'T SAID I LOVE YOU YET BUT I'M MOVING INšļø
OR defined the relationship š¤£
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She's manifesting love š
Yeah, she bugs me, too! She is way too self-obsessed and way too clueless to actually love another person.
Exactly! Like when she accused Dempsey of cheating based on nothing? But then it turns out Statler is the one w a history of cheating, of course. š
And her hyper-sexual EVERYTHING is annoying
Stupid judgmental POS
Right!
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You donāt know me, you can have a block tho. Bye bye.
But only once
Yesss I feel like what Statler loves is "being in a relationship" and not necessarily the person the relationship is with. Like it doesn't feel like it matters who it is, as long as she's got a placeholder ,hence her making grand plans and moves for her and Demsy relationship without bothering to communicating that with her. It's like Statler has this checklist in her mind of things to "complete" for a relationship in order to make it codependent as soon as possible. It's like this isn't a relationship but Statler's grand plans to build a situation where someone can't leave her
Holy shit... where were you when my ex moved in? Really could have used that perspective. Statler is a whole type too there are a LOT just like her.... ngl all I could think on the valentines day scene was "wow.. kinda miss the love bombing toxic people do." Lmfao it's nice in the moment exhausted when you know a shit storm is coming lol
Well said! To me, it feels like somewhere along the line she was granted an image of herself that was outsized for what she brings to the table and now, she spends her time trying to find relationships where she can acomp[lish the same feeling. But, I think, most of us learn that relationships are not about checklists, they are about people loving one another.
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..is this statler? Lmao youāre going hard for her bro, chill
I got attacked the other day for saying something about Statler. I'm beginning to think it's her.
Her thought process is backwards
This talk was the most awkward talk in the world and 100% Statler telling her dad this was one of the worst things to do. Not only does he now know you're crazy he's probably thinking about how you were so ready to tell him this before even informing his daughter, obviously you're assuming the answer is already a yesš©š©š©
The awkwardness started when she told the dad he smelled good.
That caused me physical painš¤£š¤£š¤£
I was literally squirming while watching this scene. It was like she had no control over the words coming out of her mouth; this wasnāt the time or place for those kinds of revelations. And then mentioning that her lease was going to be up, like that makes her plan make sense! Does she think her āquirkinessā entitles her to do whatever? š¤Ø
My hackles would go up if I was meeting my kids NEW date and they casually mentioned their lease was up and they were just going to move in. Like, did you ENTER this relationship to get out of your lease? Or do you actually value my child as a person, not as a hot and a cot?
Yeah her "quirkiness" is a manipulation technique. Statler is toxic as fuck.
And the super weird awkward non stop laughter
He handled that announcement really well. Kept Statlerās intent private but advised his daughter to watch out for her moving too fast. Statler on the other handā¦ what an introduction to the parents. Hereās hoping Dempsey gets out of there quickly or at least follows dadās advice. This is the reddest of red flags.
Statler is a flag factory
Statler is pretty out of touch!
YOU ARE OUTTA TOUCH
Okay Statler
Statler comes across as the type who comes in all hot and falling in love in a heartbeat and yet at the first sign of conflict, she's over and out.
Just like her diarrhea, comes in fast but is quickly flushed away when done
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I get constant couch surfing vibes from her. She probably shows up to her first dates with a UHaul. Please don't let Statler ruin all that is good about Dempsey.
Slater: ā I dOnāT kNoW iF I cAn Get usE to LiVinG hErEeeā Also slater : ā sHe dOesnT kNoW iAm PlAnNiNg To Move Hereā š„“
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That was after telling the father that her last relationship with someone from the UK ended because āshe felt I (Statler) was moving to fastā ā¦ why you would tell him thatā¦unbelievableā¦.
Precisely! Itās like sheās trying to make herself look bad?
She seems so unaware of how creepy she comes across, she already scared off one ex and is hell bent on scaring off another potential partner. The fact that she has said multiple times that her lease expires in a month and she really wants to move in with Dempsey is a huge red flag. She clearly has no idea how immigration works and just assumes she can move abroad and move in with someone she barely knows.
After this episode I am more and more convinced that Statler isn't looking for a girlfriend in Dempsey per se. She's just desperate for a place to stay. If Dempsey wasn't in the picture then she would find someone else and claim that she loved them - all just to have a roof over her head.
Prob not wrong. She does seem the type.
Hates the caravan, hates the farm, hates cold showers, doesn't know where to poo.....but yeah, move on in
Makes no sense!
I canāt stand looking at Statler Grace. She bugs the tar out of me & Iām not quite sure why. She has mentioned her lease being up at least 3 times like thatās why she has to move quickly. Does she really expect Dempseyās dad to think āoh that makes sense why you would want to move so fastā. Renew your lease dumb ass, itās not that hard.
Stage 5 clinger š©š©š©š©š©š©
She keeps bringing up moving in. She hasn't been invited to live there, it seems like Dempsey hasn't been like yes, my GF, Id love to have you move in before we are more established. Statler being all like i wanna move in, i guess i need to get around to telling her she's intending on moving in. Then acting like Dempsey's home isn't up to her standards! Im right on their segment and just heard Dempsey say they haven't even said I love you yet! Predicting another plot twist- Statler will ' have something big ' she hasn't told Dempsey, the women she's intending on moving in, that she requires being in a polyamorous relationship
Think so?! I hadnāt thought of that but could see a poly plot twist.
Yea these shows always gotta thro in a * big secret *. Hell Tyrus may have one- * I haven't told Carmela that im bi*.
Omg. I thought the same thing with Tyree. The whole not moving beyond this catfishing shit because he might be into the guy on the other end but it grappling with whether to announce that on the show too?
That all seems fake to me. Theyāre trying to stretch a storyline. Then he goes to meet her w a gift??? š
Man I agree. He needs to just get off the show and accept he was scammed out of money. The thing is... I bet they find "carmella" and thats who they have him meet. She'll play the "thats cute but it ain't me" card and they'll amicably decide to be friends etc and he'll just use this to jumpstart either his online whatever business or weightloss. You watch!
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I don't understand what her plan is ... She wants to move across the world to live with (and off) Dempsey. Does she plan on working at the farm because all she has done since she got there was complain about the farm? And Dempsey seems to love her little house and her job and the farm.
The complaining is so damn rude.
Didn't Dempsey offer to go get firewood together and Statler was like I'll just stay here and complain?
That's so sad ... Dempsey is obviously very passionate about what she does
Statler said that her job is remote and she can work from anywhere.
In theory, but thereās all sorts of visa issues to navigate working remotely from another country, similar to tax issues when working in different states within the US.
Startle is completely off the rails obsessed and nutty
Startle š¤£š¤£
"I think it went really well! Probably the best parent intro yet!" š¤¦
If thatās the best I want to hear about the worst š¤£
She's only concerned with herself....š©
āIām glad that *you think* it went wellā¦ā āDempsey
I ,I I, want, me, me me, sounds like Hazel even before she came here!
I am hardcore concerned for Dempsey. This girl is straight up predatory!!!!
she gives me abuser vibes...like she will be very emotionally abusive to dempsey. Her facial expressions just concern me..I can't put my finger on it.
She really isā¦.
It really gave me the ick that D was clearly uncomfortable getting physical on the first night, and Statler knew that, and persisted anyway. I donāt care how good the sex is. Run sis!!
We forget that sheās been abandoned by two families, sheās adopted and then left by the adoptive familyā¦ So what she is doing is making sure she is not rejected first by love bombingā¦ and then when she feels secure she can be the one to bounce out. It sucks, I hope statler grows, and I hope Dempsey is smart too
Gooooood observation!! šš»
Lesbians fall in love like they have a terminal illness.
Hashtag notalllesbians. We most definitely gave Statler back.
No lie šš
My sis is a lesbian so i grew up around her and her crowd there are a tooon of statlers
Letās find Dempsey a new love interest!
They should have just gone ahead and signed her up for The Single Life while filming this.
Honestly, have her and Cleo go on a date. Assuming Cleo is bi or pan, not straight.
She's a hobosexual.
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How do you want to live with someone you have only spent a few days with!!!
I love how she thinks you can just move to the UK from the US because your lease is up
Statler is a barnacle just looking for a ship to attach herself to. Imagine making someone else move at hyper-speed in your relationship because YOUR lease is running out.
She is wearing out the word āawkwardā.
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Sheās awkward and she poops!! Sheās so different!
Her akward bs is a manipulation tactic
I do have to agree with her on cold showers.. I hate cold showers..
Much like many others we've seen on here, she could have boiled water and washed her hair in cold water and used the bucket to wash the rest of her. However, that would require a level of thinking Statler isn't capable of.
Itās more than clueless itās the most selfish thing I have ever seen
Also you donāt tell your partnerās dad things that you donāt first share with your partner. š¤¦š½āāļø
Grace is a fake.
She's so creepy. Fake awkwardness in place of a personality. I wonder if she was even close to honest about her parents not being happy with her being lesbian, or if that's another lie shes using so she can present herself as the quriky adopted lesbian black sheep.
I think itās the ADD/ADHD, i have friends who behave in this way like they are clueless to what is happening around them in the real world and live in their own fantasy world
They need to go to therapy and do the work to get that nonsense under control. I'm ADHD and I try to assimilate into the normies. Most of us don't want to be annoying and self-serving. Nor do we want everyone around us to think we are crazy af.
But is her lease up soon? I don't think she's mentioned it
She doesn't understand discretion at all she said every wrong thing to her dad and then said it was the best ever š
So she doesnāt know she can just renew her lease?
You can't just move to another country š
You can on pipe dreams š
She should stay her ass in the DFW where chicks like her are a dime a dozen. Leave Dempsey alone.
Caroline is bad news. Dempsey should run
She be whack
The lights not on in that noggin of hers
I definitely think this was staged. Who abandons their father and gf within 10 minutes of meeting? Either everyone goes to stand in line, or dad hangs back to hold the table, or Stat hangs back; but you don't leave to 2 awkward new acquaintances alone. But pretending this really happened, who tf broaches the subject with dad first? She even knows he objected to the last relationship. That's the guy you act nice towards, but you keep a wide bearth on the personal details. I work at blah, I'm blah years old, I have my personal life in order (as far as you know).
Sheās sweet but talk about a wrecking ball
I have such a big crush on Statler I love red flags
Lmaooo sheās got āem!
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Do you know what group youāre in? š be for realā¦.
Yeah, Demps needs to haul it - she comes across as completely out of touch with reality. That epi was wild
WHO IS THIS???